Takes the initiative or takes control of a romantic moment. I’m not talking about anything sexual or kinky like S&M or bondage, just the simple things. For example, when I first started dating I felt a little uncomfortable when she would put her hand behind my head and held me in close while we were kissing. I soon realized that I really enjoyed giving her that control though. It wasn’t the feeling that she really liked me and I might get lucky I enjoyed, it was the feeling of intimacy and mutual trust that came with it that made it so special… What about you guys, do you like it a little, a lot, or not much???

I’m not talking about anything sexual

basically stopped reading after those words

Nothing is better than when a woman scratches the back of your head when you are driving...

Hey if a woman wants to do any of that to me, she can feel free to.

I like being the woman that takes control (sometimes)

I don't remember

Have you ever just held hands while you were driving? It's cool...

I like a woman that can take control and not be shy self confident and independence is healthy

It's getting hot

I love it when the lil' lady decides to take the initiative. It takes the pressure of whether or not I'm doing something unacceptable off of me.

It is 11 degrees here and I think I need to turn on my air conditioner! DAMN!

As I do like S&M It is the guy i prefure to take control.