Topic: I just dont get it...
MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:39 PM

Yes..this is another weight topicnoway ...but anyway why do ppl have to be so rude? i was with a friend of mine who is a "big" girl but shes really pretty...when we bump into a mutual friend who tells her (right in front of me)..."Wow....your still so pretty but you would be sooo much prettier if you lost that weight"....I was like "Excuse me..shes pretty no matter what"! :tongue: How rude! She knows she's overweight..she doesnt need anyone to tell her thatgrumble anyway ppl piss me off!! devil sorry just venting:tongue:


Thats when ya say... well a$$hole..your ugly and she an diet!!!

Jules0565's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:41 PM

That was very rude of them to say!! I myself am overweight, and on a diet!! I am trying to lose my weight, but it is hard!! I did lose 4 lbs. last week though!!:heart: People can be very rude to heavyset people!!grumble :angry:


Congrats RedSox!!! Great Job!! Keep up the good work!!
drinker drinker drinker

robert1652's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:41 PM

I used to get that til I tell them "thanks I know I am fat"
But Fat is my acronym
F-fine
A-and
T-tasty or tempting
And I say it with a smile. It goes along way with making them see how rude they are. Sometimes I throw in "dont you wish you could get some of this big girl" espcecially if they are ugly.LOL

You look good tooflowerforyou

beachbum069's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:42 PM
I like girls with curves.flowerforyou

Jules0565's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:42 PM
Also.. if anyone is on the Atkins diet, email me, I have an EXCELLENT pizza recipe!! Yummmm

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:43 PM
You can change your weight easier than you can change an ugly personality...

Enough saiddrinker

kitcat87's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:43 PM
Edited by kitcat87 on Tue 06/17/08 02:43 PM
people are just a$$holes and thats when u say well at least is she wants to lose the weight she can change...

Troyd879's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:45 PM
I love it when people say $hit like that... As if I was oblivious to the fact that my pants are getting tighter... Thanks for the heads up buddy...

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:45 PM
Edited by Citizen_Joe on Tue 06/17/08 02:45 PM

awwwwwww i know some ppl like that,,an they ant so hot there self,,,,,,,like he weighs about 400 pounds an he wants a skinny woman,,,,i told him,,good luck buddy


I've seen it happen. A really good friend of mine left behind 4 kids and one skinny wife due to a massive heart attack, on September 9,2006 noway noway noway noway noway noway

Redsoxfan1's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:45 PM


That was very rude of them to say!! I myself am overweight, and on a diet!! I am trying to lose my weight, but it is hard!! I did lose 4 lbs. last week though!!:heart: People can be very rude to heavyset people!!grumble :angry:


Congrats RedSox!!! Great Job!! Keep up the good work!!
drinker drinker drinker
TY, Jules!! I'm trying!!:heart:

feistybaby's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:47 PM
This is called the backhanded compliment. Someone trying to appear nice while actually being catty. Face it a lot of people are just rude and many more simply can't feel good about themselves without trying to make someone else feel bad. Sad but true....

rainysky39's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:48 PM


I used to get that til I tell them "thanks I know I am fat"
But Fat is my acronym
F-fine
A-and
T-tasty or tempting
And I say it with a smile. It goes along way with making them see how rude they are. Sometimes I throw in "dont you wish you could get some of this big girl" espcecially if they are ugly.LOL

You look good tooflowerforyou


Awww thanks hun smooched

BettyB's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:50 PM
When my sister died someone came up to me at the funeral home I thought to give their condolances .Their precious words of comfort were"hmm putting on a little weight aren,t you'?

whizzkid's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:51 PM
i get that all the time. that or, "you WOULD be pretty if you lost weight." like my weight makes me ugly. so annoying.

rainysky39's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:54 PM
Ive been told I am too fat or ugly by people who claim they love me, I DO NOT need it from someone who really I couldnt give a rats a$$ about. I have to wake up each morning and take care of me so I just let it roll off my back now.

No1sLove's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:57 PM
Those people are missing all the beautiful colors of God's paintbrush if you ask me. I for one am glad we're not made from a cookie cutter! And unless there is a health issue...that's important to THAT person, why should they loose weight at all? Stressing over dieting is as harmful to your health as a few extra pounds might be. Some of the happiest people I know have had a little extra to hug and I personally think happy is true beauty! :heart: flowerforyou :heart:

hikerchick's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:57 PM
I don't care whether any of these buttholes like my body or not. I am fabulous. Too bad for anyone who can't see it.

beachbum069's photo
Tue 06/17/08 02:59 PM

I don't care whether any of these buttholes like my body or not. I am fabulous. Too bad for anyone who can't see it.

YOU'RE FABULOUS.flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Tue 06/17/08 03:04 PM


I don't care whether any of these buttholes like my body or not. I am fabulous. Too bad for anyone who can't see it.

YOU'RE FABULOUS.flowerforyou
Thank you darling!

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 06/17/08 03:26 PM

Those people are missing all the beautiful colors of God's paintbrush if you ask me. I for one am glad we're not made from a cookie cutter! And unless there is a health issue...that's important to THAT person, why should they loose weight at all? Stressing over dieting is as harmful to your health as a few extra pounds might be. Some of the happiest people I know have had a little extra to hug and I personally think happy is true beauty! :heart: flowerforyou :heart:


I've had all of the brush strokes of god's creation before, in one woman, twice. Unfortunately, humans made a medication that messes with metabolisms, and humans kept prescibing and selling it, regardless of what it does to the body. Wife #2 was slender/average when we married, and her doctor put her on a medication that made her heavier than me. That wasn't what caused us to divorce, nor was it anything that stopped us in other areas. It pisses me off though, the general apathy of the medical community. Oh this sorta works, let's keep the poor bastard or non-bastard on it.