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Topic: Love Notes
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Fri 02/04/11 12:05 AM



On top of Spaghetti
all covered with cheese
I lost my poor meatball
when somebody sneezed
rolled off of the table
and onto the floor
then my poor meatball rolled out of the door.....smokin


You totally undermined my note, newark. laugh


I'm sorry honey. I got all serious for a minute.....smokin


It's cool. I laughed my *** off. Putting it back again. laugh

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 12:33 AM
I think maybe I was getting too confident thinking that everything was going to be the way it's supposed to be. I mean, I still believe that it will be. It is what it is. It will be what it will be. I believe that. I guess I was just thinking that it was going to come together and make sense sooner. I apparently have a lot more things undone than I had realized. It's strange though because I'm not confused with each thing individually. It's when I try to look at them all at once that they don't make sense, that I don't make sense, that I wonder when everything WILL make sense, when I WILL finally understand.

And I think this Note is disjointed enough that it won't make sense to anyone else either. Welcome to my brain. Welcome to my world. Aha!

AbbyJ21's photo
Fri 02/04/11 12:45 AM
WhoIAm, I get where your coming from in ur last post. My girl and I were together for 2 years, on and off. She kept going back and forth between me and her ex bf. Then in Nov on my birthday told me she was ready to really be with me. By christmas time she was supossed to come to my place for her bday dinner and she wanted me to go pick her up then have him come get her so she could stay the night with him to go to church the next morning. I told her to go **** herself and now they are dating. Funny how you give everything you have to someone who just rips ur heart out, stomps & spits on it. Its going to take time to get over it. She was my bestfriend and now I don't ever want to see her again.. Oh well, I'll be just fine.. someday!

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 01:14 AM
Yeah, it's just this utter lack of communication out there. It pisses me off. If people would just say what they mean and mean what they say and be f#cking honest with each other, people would just be happier.

My last posting, however, isn't exactly about something like that either. I have been hurt by others in the past, but that's not where I'm at right now. I'm not hurting at all. I'm absolutely fine.

I just don't know what I want and I think I need to figure that out. I end up hurting people, probably more often than I am hurt by others. And I never want to hurt anyone ever. It's never my intention. And most of the time, I don't even realize why or how I'm doing it. I'm not oblivious to the feelings of others by a long shot. I think I just take everything, absolutely everything, at face value. So when others aren't shooting straight and I'm assuming they are and I react based on my assumption that what they have said/done is truth, they end up getting hurt. I do too most of the time. But I always get blamed for it too.

Too much thinking! I gotta go to bed.

Kevin4114's photo
Fri 02/04/11 11:02 AM


My last posting, however, isn't exactly about something like that either. I have been hurt by others in the past, but that's not where I'm at right now. I'm not hurting at all. I'm absolutely fine.



Good for you.:smile:

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Fri 02/04/11 11:07 AM



My last posting, however, isn't exactly about something like that either. I have been hurt by others in the past, but that's not where I'm at right now. I'm not hurting at all. I'm absolutely fine.



Good for you.:smile:
Welcome to Minglewaving

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 08:33 PM
We've had a few Mingle newcomers come in. Welcome to all. Welcome to everyone in fact. Respect is all that matters on this thread.

Peace to all and to all a good night. After I write my love note for the evening.

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 08:39 PM
well alright. giggity.

WhoIAm's photo
Sat 02/05/11 01:59 AM

I think maybe I was getting too confident thinking that everything was going to be the way it's supposed to be. I mean, I still believe that it will be. It is what it is. It will be what it will be. I believe that. I guess I was just thinking that it was going to come together and make sense sooner. I apparently have a lot more things left undone than I had realized. It's strange though because I'm not confused with each thing individually. It's when I try to look at them all at once that they don't make sense, that I don't make sense, that I wonder when everything WILL make sense, when I WILL finally understand.


Okay. I think that I need to stop thinking. I think that by thinking about each individual thing that I may be subconsciously trying to exert my will against the Universe. I just can't think that I have any idea which way things are going to go because I have NO idea which way things are going to go. With regard to ANY situation.

I think I have some readings to do. Don Miguel Ruiz (his Four Agreements) and maybe a bit of Millman (his Laws of Spirit). And whatever else jumps out at me. I need to get back to paying attention to the world with my intuition rather than my senses.

And just like that...minutes, everything has changed once again. I really don't understand. But I'm okay with that. I have no choice if I want to remain sane. :thumbsup:

Okami04's photo
Sat 02/05/11 02:11 AM
the worst note

What are you thinking about
the most overused phrase by a woman , and I understand you mean it to show interest and care but all the time asking nooo


I am a guy I am thinking about Sex, fighting and working out in that order sooo
quit asking me lol


Just b/c I dont say anything doesn't always mean something deep is going on in my head

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Sat 02/05/11 03:04 AM
Edited by mylifetoday on Sat 02/05/11 03:49 AM
Um, I would write them here but they are allegories to how much I love and appreciate the woman I'm with at the time. They aren't graphic but the implications are very strong...

Like describing a peach or ocean front land. I know it sounds silly, but any woman that read it and knows me would react the same way.

I never say anything like: Your hair is like a meadow. I just describe the meadow. I can claim innocence if it is taken as the innuendos I intend them to be. :angel: :wink:

BTW - a previous girlfriend told me I can't use the angel anymore. She said she knows I am not innocent! surprised LOL

ladyliz1417's photo
Sat 02/05/11 09:37 AM
I got nothing!!!!indifferent

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Sun 02/06/11 02:21 AM




why, oh why did you go back to your wife??brokenheart :cry: sad :cry: sad :cry: sad :cry: sad brokenheart


Awwww! Oh no! brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart
I know, right? It was 6 years ago and I am still not over it.


Wow, that sucks. I hope you find love again soon.

WhoIAm's photo
Sun 02/06/11 03:09 AM
Why is everything so difficult and demanding my attention right now? Everything is crashing together. I know it's a good thing and that the greater good will come out of it. I don't know what that will be. I'm okay with that, but I wish it would slow down and let me process. It's too much all at once. Thank you, Universe.

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Sun 02/06/11 09:27 AM

Yeah, it's just this utter lack of communication out there. It pisses me off. If people would just say what they mean and mean what they say and be f#cking honest with each other, people would just be happier.

My last posting, however, isn't exactly about something like that either. I have been hurt by others in the past, but that's not where I'm at right now. I'm not hurting at all. I'm absolutely fine.

I just don't know what I want and I think I need to figure that out. I end up hurting people, probably more often than I am hurt by others. And I never want to hurt anyone ever. It's never my intention. And most of the time, I don't even realize why or how I'm doing it. I'm not oblivious to the feelings of others by a long shot. I think I just take everything, absolutely everything, at face value. So when others aren't shooting straight and I'm assuming they are and I react based on my assumption that what they have said/done is truth, they end up getting hurt. I do too most of the time. But I always get blamed for it too.

I agree with on that entirely, too many people want to **** with your mind, call them players hun, should be able to tell them a mile off, had one another site just the last 2 days. I asked him if he meant what he said and he said yes, he said he did not know how to make me believe me then plies with more love notes and funny I ask him if he is being honest with me and nothing. He replies on the forums that is just thoughts and things shared ffs no-one should treat anyone this way but it happens. Hence I am here now to share with you lot and hope it is a bit happier on here lol

Too much thinking! I gotta go to bed.

OSHERRYJUST4U's photo
Sun 02/06/11 09:49 AM
I found a sweet n gentle man on herehappy It's amazing to know how close you really are to someone you never thought you would meet...Thanks to Mingle2:banana: :banana:

WhoIAm's photo
Sun 02/06/11 11:19 AM

I found a sweet n gentle man on herehappy It's amazing to know how close you really are to someone you never thought you would meet...Thanks to Mingle2:banana: :banana:


That's awesome! I found some guy on another site. He messaged me first and I responded. We had a week of back and forth messages, talked on the phone, talked about meeting. And I don't know, maybe he's just busy now but the last message I got was on Friday and it was short. So I guess I probably annoyed him away.

markc48's photo
Sun 02/06/11 11:39 AM
I plead the fifth.

loveable408's photo
Sun 02/06/11 11:40 AM


Yeah, it's just this utter lack of communication out there. It pisses me off. If people would just say what they mean and mean what they say and be f#cking honest with each other, people would just be happier.

My last posting, however, isn't exactly about something like that either. I have been hurt by others in the past, but that's not where I'm at right now. I'm not hurting at all. I'm absolutely fine.

I just don't know what I want and I think I need to figure that out. I end up hurting people, probably more often than I am hurt by others. And I never want to hurt anyone ever. It's never my intention. And most of the time, I don't even realize why or how I'm doing it. I'm not oblivious to the feelings of others by a long shot. I think I just take everything, absolutely everything, at face value. So when others aren't shooting straight and I'm assuming they are and I react based on my assumption that what they have said/done is truth, they end up getting hurt. I do too most of the time. But I always get blamed for it too.

I agree with on that entirely, too many people want to **** with your mind, call them players hun, should be able to tell them a mile off, had one another site just the last 2 days. I asked him if he meant what he said and he said yes, he said he did not know how to make me believe me then plies with more love notes and funny I ask him if he is being honest with me and nothing. He replies on the forums that is just thoughts and things shared ffs no-one should treat anyone this way but it happens. Hence I am here now to share with you lot and hope it is a bit happier on here lol

Too much thinking! I gotta go to bed.



my message was the last paragraph and was agreeing with sorry

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Sun 02/06/11 11:58 AM
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