Thanks Hotchikita and oceanblueatbeach!
I know that I have to allow lots of time. And I will do that for them.
They are my angels and they will hopefully adjust. I love this site,
everyone is so helpful and kind! Thanks to everyone that gave me advice

That is a good choice you'll see every thing will be OK when your time
comes. Me it took 6 years and he is the best thing good could give me.
I'm so happy I didn't jump on the first guy I saw. I really hope it will
take less time for you then it did for me.

Thanks Hotchikita,
I hope that you are bless in everything that you do. You sound like you
are very happy and I hope it all continues!

mommy? i think u are doing great!! first of all and second dont call it
mommys time for they dont wanna be left out... find a differet term like
he kids i love ya and will think about ya all night... im going out with
a friend tonght and be thinking of ya all night will be home to kiss ya
good night...etc... and good u dont bring a man into their lives till u
are sure !!! good thinking! and reassure them... tell them u are sorry
so and so is gone now for i know how u loved him such as i did... i
would never date a guy whom i felt whom loved u as much as he did..etc..
on those terms gl sorry about the loss to u and your children

geesh lol ... i would never date a guy whom i felt loved u any less as
he did is what i meant..