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Topic: If nice guys finish last...
chrissylynn36 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 138	Sun 06/15/08 11:27 PM
just be yourself and be honest... dont worry about where ur gonna finish... enjoy the ride.. <<<<<(needs to use this advice herself sometimes) Yeah me tooooo

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:28 PM
as I said before I am who I am !!! a nice guy, but happy and confident its your story , you have the right to tell it your own way well thanks !!! and he lived happily ever after

chrissylynn36 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 138	Sun 06/15/08 11:29 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee

Alterego1961 Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 828	Sun 06/15/08 11:30 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Then they're not the one for me. I don't want someone who wants a "bad boy", because I would end up disappointing them sooner or later.

Alterego1961 Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 828	Sun 06/15/08 11:32 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee Makes perfect sense to me darlin'. I have recently wondered in retrospect if someone I liked years ago did that....

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Sun 06/15/08 11:32 PM
would you rather be a typical man and finish first, or be a nice guy and finish last, but finish happy??? say that again Who's a blonde now?????

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:33 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ?

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:36 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee But what im saying is ive met women who has told me that nice guys turn them off

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Sun 06/15/08 11:37 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee i think this is commonly called putting up walls !!!

chrissylynn36 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 138	Sun 06/15/08 11:38 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ? actually yeah it does....maybe he made her feel useless and made her self esteem go way down so therfore she didnt feel worthy enough to have someone like you in her life....maybe she wasnt ready for that.....

chrissylynn36 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 138	Sun 06/15/08 11:39 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee But what im saying is ive met women who has told me that nice guys turn them off were these wmoen who wanted a relationship or were still out having there "fun" so to speak???

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:40 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ? actually yeah it does....maybe he made her feel useless and made her self esteem go way down so therfore she didnt feel worthy enough to have someone like you in her life....maybe she wasnt ready for that..... ya but why go back to someone that you know is gonna abuse you again and dont like your kids ?

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:41 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee But what im saying is ive met women who has told me that nice guys turn them off were these wmoen who wanted a relationship or were still out having there "fun" so to speak??? no its just they say they like men who likes to manhandle a woman

Alterego1961 Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 828	Sun 06/15/08 11:41 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee But what im saying is ive met women who has told me that nice guys turn them off And I know i've probably turned off a few women because I was too nice, but they were women I wouldn't want to be with anyway... They are welcome to dislike me if they want to. I'm hoping to find ONE woman to love who also loves me. That woman would have to love me for me.

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:42 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee But what im saying is ive met women who has told me that nice guys turn them off And I know i've probably turned off a few women because I was too nice, but they were women I wouldn't want to be with anyway... They are welcome to dislike me if they want to. I'm hoping to find ONE woman to love who also loves me. That woman would have to love me for me.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sun 06/15/08 11:42 PM
If a guy isnt nice to me........I kill them with my eyes!!!!!!!!!

chrissylynn36 Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 138	Sun 06/15/08 11:43 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ? actually yeah it does....maybe he made her feel useless and made her self esteem go way down so therfore she didnt feel worthy enough to have someone like you in her life....maybe she wasnt ready for that..... ya but why go back to someone that you know is gonna abuse you again and dont like your kids ? Maybe she thought she really loved him and could change him....which we all know you cant......maybe it was easier for her to go back than to try to start something new....self esteam issue again......but then again would you have really wanted a woman like that???? Things happen for a reson

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:43 PM
If a guy isnt nice to me........I kill them with my eyes!!!!!!!!! wow , nice coconut eyes

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Sun 06/15/08 11:45 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ? actually yeah it does....maybe he made her feel useless and made her self esteem go way down so therfore she didnt feel worthy enough to have someone like you in her life....maybe she wasnt ready for that..... ya but why go back to someone that you know is gonna abuse you again and dont like your kids ? Maybe she thought she really loved him and could change him....which we all know you cant......maybe it was easier for her to go back than to try to start something new....self esteam issue again......but then again would you have really wanted a woman like that???? Things happen for a reson yep , good point .. dammm youre a good blonde i like you already :

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Sun 06/15/08 11:46 PM
some times it dont pay to be a nice guy , cause ive met alot of women who dont like nice guys Sometimes women have been treated like crap from other guys that they put this wall up and they dont know really how to respond to a nice guy....they get scared and not say nothing..so that makes it look like she doesnt like the nice guy...and then the nice guy gives up..does that make sense??? It's early in the morning...and i am trying to think..need more coffee ya it makes some sense . one time i dated this woman who broke up with her boyfriend cause he always abused her and he didnt like her kids . she ended up dumping me and went back to him cause she said i was way to nice . now does that make sense ? That goes both ways.Nice guys stay with real crappy wemon to.Sometimes I wish I could be a real Bi##h.Than I would have better luck.