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Topic: Guys or gals: How to deal with getting in over your head
Kleisto's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:03 PM
Any ideas? I always get too involved with someone too soon, and inevitably end up hurt for various reasons. It never fails seems like. How do I handle this and more importantly break this cycle?

Spaceman2008's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:04 PM
It took me years. Just try to be as patient as possible....

grneyedldy1967's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:05 PM
wear a bio hazard suit.. that way they won't want to get too close too soon.... flowerforyou

merlin2525's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:05 PM
Get married
After the divorce, It'll never happen again

dbad111's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:05 PM
blushing u will go through a lot of people i also open up very quickley and end up getting hurt but i stay friends with them after






u will find some 1

itsmetina's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:05 PM
get as much sex as you can

Max_Darkling's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:07 PM
you must learn to be more secure with who you are. And you will be less dependent on other people to make you fell complete

robert1652's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:07 PM
Don't stand Don't stand so Don't stand so close to melaugh

readyrh's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:08 PM
*signs up for Tina's class*

kerbear73's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:09 PM
Be patient, all good things come to those who wait :smile:

Max_Darkling's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:09 PM

get as much sex as you can

Yes that always helps

Redshirt's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:11 PM
Be patient. Relationships take time to develope. Have learned that the hard way. Those who rush in often rush out.
flowerforyou

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:14 PM
Your young yet, it takes YEARS of practice.

flowerforyou

markc48's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:15 PM

get as much sex as you can
Better to love and loss , than never to love at all.

johncarl's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:20 PM
ask a friend to help you.invite the girl over and have your friend tell you if she is any good .and listen to them.bigsmile

Kleisto's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:26 PM

Be patient. Relationships take time to develope. Have learned that the hard way. Those who rush in often rush out.
flowerforyou


Yeah just gotta relax, I invest too much too quick, and then get let down. Best thing to do is take it slow, and I am going to try my best to do that from now on, starting with the one I'm interested in now. :smile:

brooke007's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:29 PM

Any ideas? I always get too involved with someone too soon, and inevitably end up hurt for various reasons. It never fails seems like. How do I handle this and more importantly break this cycle?


take your time...whatever happens happens...
very rare to find something that could work out in the whole grand scheme of things..
most important----have faith things will work out in the end..and HAVE FUN!!!!happy happy

Spaceman2008's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:30 PM


Be patient. Relationships take time to develope. Have learned that the hard way. Those who rush in often rush out.
flowerforyou


Yeah just gotta relax, I invest too much too quick, and then get let down. Best thing to do is take it slow, and I am going to try my best to do that from now on, starting with the one I'm interested in now. :smile:



Yeah....I've decided I set a boundary as to how far I will go feeling and physical wise....

Who, if I may be so bold?

no photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:34 PM

Any ideas? I always get too involved with someone too soon, and inevitably end up hurt for various reasons. It never fails seems like. How do I handle this and more importantly break this cycle?
How about taking things slow???? Dont jump in head first.....wade a while with your feet.....check the temperature!:wink:

no photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:35 PM
Take your time...what's the rush? Get to know the person, before you decide you hear wedding bells!

It takes more than 4 movies and 6 phone conversations to fall inlove....so settle down bucko, relax take a deep breath and take it slow...

good luck

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