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i think i am forgetting how to feel...
i've been through a lot in life but have always refused to change and tried not to put up walls or become jaded... but it seems like i have...Its crazy even though i am always happy something is different....i dont wanna get hurt but i wanna feel again...does this make sense ? |
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i think i am forgetting how to feel... i've been through a lot in life but have always refused to change and tried not to put up walls or become jaded... but it seems like i have...Its crazy even though i am always happy something is different....i dont wanna get hurt but i wanna feel again...does this make sense ? You won't feel again until you open yourself up for hurt. 
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yes it makes sense!!!
You get in a rut of being so guarded you forget to let anyone in!
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i think so too
i think i am forgetting how to feel... i've been through a lot in life but have always refused to change and tried not to put up walls or become jaded... but it seems like i have...Its crazy even though i am always happy something is different....i dont wanna get hurt but i wanna feel again...does this make sense ? You won't feel again until you open yourself up for hurt.
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Everyone puts up a wall after being hurt.. when the right person comes along, you will know.. they will eventually tear down that wall.. just don't block them too much in the process, they will think your not interested. Starting over is a scarey thing.. don't hang on to too much of the past (except the things you've learned to take to a new relationship) learn to trust again, better yet, someone new needs to earn your trust, don't just give it up freely
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yeah.....it like the lottery.....you cant win if you dont play!
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exactly
yes it makes sense!!! You get in a rut of being so guarded you forget to let anyone in!
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i think i am forgetting how to feel... i've been through a lot in life but have always refused to change and tried not to put up walls or become jaded... but it seems like i have...Its crazy even though i am always happy something is different....i dont wanna get hurt but i wanna feel again...does this make sense ? Yes because today I was thinking the same thing about myself. |
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well, you obviously care, that's a good thing. don't let others dictate how you feel, if you can help it. if you can't, it's completely understood, but search where your feeling comes from, and learn from it if you can, and if it's of value, then use that wisdom to help others, and whatch for the repeat behavior from others, so you won't be hurt again. it may not be the same, but it will throw a similar pattern, but keep the open mind you have. it your best asset for the future.
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i think i am forgetting how to feel... i've been through a lot in life but have always refused to change and tried not to put up walls or become jaded... but it seems like i have...Its crazy even though i am always happy something is different....i dont wanna get hurt but i wanna feel again...does this make sense ? Welcome back to the human race.
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