Topic: today makes me sad soooo
I_am_Tater's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:44 AM
i think it should be brothers day bigsmile i got plenty of them plus if it was brothers day the fact that my real dad is a deadbeat drunk who decided yet again he doesnt want me because im not a boy wouldnt bother me at all

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Sun 06/15/08 09:48 AM
doesnt being up side down make you dizzy?!laugh

Phxlilly's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:50 AM
This day really does have you confused doesn't it? (hanging upside down). Hey its HIS loss. Some day he might regret it and then it will be his problem. Be glad for all the love from your mom or your brothers, your friends or whomever. flowerforyou

baroosie's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:51 AM
I'll be your surrogate father today! flowerforyou Just remember: alcoholism is a sickness... all you can do is pray for him and ignore bad things he might say..... maybe one day he'll recover and become a new person.... that happened to me 28 years ago... flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

boneyjoe's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:53 AM
u think she got th point?????

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Sun 06/15/08 09:54 AM

i think it should be brothers day bigsmile i got plenty of them plus if it was brothers day the fact that my real dad is a deadbeat drunk who decided yet again he doesnt want me because im not a boy wouldnt bother me at all


Whoa!!! That is one f'd up man!!! :angry: HIS LOSS!!! grumble I hope you have a lot of other REAL men to make up for HIS problemo!! :heart:

baroosie's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:54 AM

u think she got th point?????
I hope so, for her sake

I_am_Tater's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:55 AM

This day really does have you confused doesn't it? (hanging upside down). Hey its HIS loss. Some day he might regret it and then it will be his problem. Be glad for all the love from your mom or your brothers, your friends or whomever. flowerforyou

my mom doesnt exactly love me butttt my brothers do :)

Jules0565's photo
Sun 06/15/08 09:58 AM
Alcoholism is a sickness, I lost my father to it when I was only 8 years old, he died at the age of 43.. my age now. It's very sad to think about it..so I don't.

I put my thought's into the wonderful person that raised me and taught me the value of life: My Mother. It wasn't always easy being a single parent but she did the very best she could. And with her direction.. it has taught me to be the very best single parent I can be. Thank you mom flowerforyou

One more thought... I personally do not believe in.. if a family member were an alcoholic then you have greater chances of becoming one yourself.. NO! YOU choose the life you want to lead.

I_am_Tater's photo
Sun 06/15/08 10:01 AM

Alcoholism is a sickness, I lost my father to it when I was only 8 years old, he died at the age of 43.. my age now. It's very sad to think about it..so I don't.

I put my thought's into the wonderful person that raised me and taught me the value of life: My Mother. It wasn't always easy being a single parent but she did the very best she could. And with her direction.. it has taught me to be the very best single parent I can be. Thank you mom flowerforyou

One more thought... I personally do not believe in.. if a family member were an alcoholic then you have greater chances of becoming one yourself.. NO! YOU choose the life you want to lead.


i know and im 21 its not like i need him but i do wish he wanted me but yall r right its his loss

joshua2727's photo
Sun 06/15/08 10:06 AM
flowerforyou flowerforyou awwwww happy brothers day sisflowerforyou flowerforyou lol

I_am_Tater's photo
Sun 06/15/08 10:07 AM
lol happy brothers day bro see i told u it was a good idea

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Sun 06/15/08 10:12 AM
:heart: Find your love and embrace that..Know YOU can NEVER be his bad and through his life though bad,,did serve you a positive for your future and actions that you will never do or be to your children..:heart: flowerforyou GOD'S lessions are many times over-looked as we only FEEL our own pains, not what the bad actions he done and showed....has also taught us....

baroosie's photo
Sun 06/15/08 11:22 AM

Alcoholism is a sickness, I lost my father to it when I was only 8 years old, he died at the age of 43.. my age now. It's very sad to think about it..so I don't.

I put my thought's into the wonderful person that raised me and taught me the value of life: My Mother. It wasn't always easy being a single parent but she did the very best she could. And with her direction.. it has taught me to be the very best single parent I can be. Thank you mom flowerforyou

One more thought... I personally do not believe in.. if a family member were an alcoholic then you have greater chances of becoming one yourself.. NO! YOU choose the life you want to lead.
A chromosone was discovered years ago at Long Beach State Hospital ,that makes the offspring of an alcoholic more suspeptible to obsessions and compulsions (ie: drinking more than enough)

Jules0565's photo
Sun 06/15/08 11:44 AM


Alcoholism is a sickness, I lost my father to it when I was only 8 years old, he died at the age of 43.. my age now. It's very sad to think about it..so I don't.

I put my thought's into the wonderful person that raised me and taught me the value of life: My Mother. It wasn't always easy being a single parent but she did the very best she could. And with her direction.. it has taught me to be the very best single parent I can be. Thank you mom flowerforyou

One more thought... I personally do not believe in.. if a family member were an alcoholic then you have greater chances of becoming one yourself.. NO! YOU choose the life you want to lead.
A chromosone was discovered years ago at Long Beach State Hospital ,that makes the offspring of an alcoholic more suspeptible to obsessions and compulsions (ie: drinking more than enough)


But it is still up to that individual person to control their own life and make the choices