To folks here who don't really know me,lol. THATS alot..

I have been on these pages for about two years and have talked, asked, read...About every kind of topic the humen mind can can up with but still,some, can surprise me!
A little about me.
When I was young I suffered abuse and I TALKED funny,lol.I had a speech inpediment that no-one could really understand..
So after eight years of speech therapy I learned how to talk..Very well I may add. But NOT how to correctly spell or type in sentence form to be correctly read.
But THATS me. I hated anything to do with english and spelling as I was made fun of in life and fought my way out of that life.
Through learning proper speech and learning how to kick a dudes azz,lol..Now on here I have bumped heads with some people who have felt it their place to view me as iliterate, or just think of me as dumb..If you and I were to talk by phone or in person. You would as all have found me to have a very high volcabulary
and distinked manner of voice..some have asked if I was into radio because of the clarity of my voice.
Everyone I have ever met has asked me for my opinion on some subject. Because they dimmed me inteligent to do that for them.
I leave here each week and drive all over the country and THINK,lol..I think about my friends here and their lives and strangers who have said this or that to me or someone else that I have read.
I am by NO STANDARDS an intelectual person nor an extremly high I.Q. But smart I would say was my mental aptatude verses stupid.
I answered a question on a post here last week.
It was asked by someone who has said THEY were of a higher IQ.
as apposed to average IQ,lol..
But their question was to say,,,they could not understand how a person could FEEL a low self esteen.
To me THAT in it self was asanine, as to even ask..
Because if they didn't understand that feeling or awareness to how anyone can feel that way in and through this life is absurd.
Ask ANY new mommy about her weight, during or after birth,lol THEY will tell ya in a heart beat that they FEEL BIG,,,and ugly..thus,,,what? A low self esteen correct..??
When any child picks on another one with harsh words,,,FAT,URLY,STUPID,,,,these words all hurt and attempt to drive that person down by using them..
Then thats where a good parent will talk and advise their child as to not being what they called them and to not ever think that...But you can't grow in America w/o seeing and hearing put-downs and harsh words to hurt with..
My computer is missing word perfect, or ANY writting program,so spell check won't work..I bought a dictionary but now misplaced it,lol and to google a correct spelling is alot of time to use.
SO, I just wanted to expresss my thoughts and to allow everyone to see me and to know why, and where I came from and who I am..Nobody special,lol but real with real faults and passions.
I have always preached on here to NOT judge a person if they might be a little un-intelegent.. Because who are WE to judge another if their heart is into what they are trying to acomplish
RIGHT? So life here and people here will always disagree as to everyone else on different matters. But I felt compelled to just imform folks a little bit about me.
Real people are very hard to find here, as many have fantasies as to who they would like to be..
I have always TRIED to dis-arm them who I know try to fake pictures or what they are. As THEY,,will hurt another when their lies are found out..because I have been there..
I have been played with here by many, but it doesn't make everyone a player or bad person, just some who have already left here..
I hope that all of you realize that your words can make another very sad, and some even leave..
I have seen this happen here, all in a joke to them. But the joke hurt the person alot..
I have big shoulders and IM not writting this just for or about myself but for the MANY here..
Who think its cool to put down another or to suggest a inuwindo
that is degrading...I have always said judge no man before living in his shoes for one day, then,,,you at least gave him your true TIME, to evalurate his life.
Many on here have all been through my disapointments and my great times...As a person here who trully cares about all of you and your happiness and pains.
PLEASE don't play a person or lead them on to just hurt them.
I have had that happen to some close friends recently and it f88ked them up!!! And thats just wrong to want to do..
Behind everyone of these monitors is a REAL PERSON, with REAL FEELINGS...
PLEASE try and carry on the respect here for others to see and learn through YOUR actions...

We have always been like a team of friends here working for each ones best! And life here is what WE ALL MAKE IT TO BE.

I guess im done trying to talk and vent a bit,lol.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL...Be safe and have a good weekend..

gooojob,,,,,there are severl on here that needs totake a walk,,,,,,gooodmorining grayhound

Well sai iam....
Thank you

Hope your weekend is as wonderful as you are

Very well said.

<stands up, applauds>

Good looking out, my friend... good looking out. Much respect to you!

I second that emotion!!

very well said dude....happy fathers day to you

exactly!! *applauding* (((iam4U)))

I love English(grammar,etc) and like to spell correctly but I would never tease or berate someone for not. I once dated a man with a severe speech impediment, and people were total jerks to him about it all his life, not nice.

True words, iam4u. As a child I was missing my two front teeth for a long time. Did the speech therapy classes too.

Some folks who have NEVER felt the end of painful words, are the ones who have no-idea of CARING about a stranger or friend who might really HEAR them and their inner thoughts...MEAN is MEAN young or old..
And respect and disrespect both are age-less as to showing BOTH.

IT would be NICE if everyone REALLY grew-up......
But many THINK life can still be seen as funny to a blindman walking out in moving traffic. Or a BIG or really skinny person who they first see, and point and joke about..

Peace, Love, and Be REAL!!

i should drink more coffee befor i get on here,,,,,or get spell check

Amen, brother!

and on that note, I'm off to church, PEACE to you all,
have Great Father's Day!!!

I can't even use a spell check much,lol..
Because ONE first has to have a clue to what letter starts it,lol,lol,lol

Good Thread Iam4u I too have been on here for a long time (you couldn't tell from the number of posts I have...LOL )and as soon as I see the kind of stuff you speak of...I just go on to a different thread...It's a shame that some are so self indulgent and have no respect for others....but it just shows lack of respect for one's self and a very low self esteem.Anyway...thanks for the thread...we all need to be reminded now and then that although this is cyber-space...there are real people behind the curtain.

Thank you for a well thought out post!
I couldn't agree more!

great thread as always!!! i so agree with all of it... i dont know who said that bit about a low self esteemed person cant have a high iq.. i will say this.. mine is quite a bit above average.. and from time to time in my life i have a low esteem...usually a low esteem comes from others in the past treating you wrong... has not a thing to do with iq sorry had to giggle on that one.... as you see i cant type either and i dont spell the best.. i guess my self esteem isnt low about that cause honestly i dont care much about it..

do people not see a difference between dissagreeing and cutting down someone? ive seen some plain mean **** on here before. and people being mean to others also when there is nothing to even dissagree about.....it is one thing to joke around in a way when you have really gotten to know someone but untill you actually know someone its usually best not to do that. so you know that it wont hurt their feelings.

as for me you may see me joke around with a few on here.. but ill tell ya i know them well .. and they know i care about them as a human being first....deb

but then again iam4u...it is easier to weed out people on here that you want to be your friends or dont want them!

Would never want to bolster my own self-esteem by making someone else feel small. Something about that seems almost leech-like...sucking the positive energy out of someone else to nourish myself. Just not a good thing.

iam, I, too, was abused by someone as a child...not my peer, but my parent. Abuse suffered as a child makes it difficult to build a healthy sense of self, but it is not impossible. I'm still nurturing mine by eliminating those who are negative & bring me down. I'm not where most are...or where I should be, but my self-esteem is growing! Thanks for sharing your thoughts...written beautifully from the !

Just wanted say that what you said was well thought out. I happen to agree with what you wrote. I am new here and I haven't posted very much. I am still learning the posting process. Good luck to all!