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Topic: Men...what do you say about this...?
BlndwBdge's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:29 AM
Ok, so I need some advice. I'm a person who likes communication by any and all means,,,phone, text, email, IM, etc... Here is my quandry... I recently started talking to a guy from JSH. He sought me out. He initiated the contact with me and gave me his phone number. We talked on IM and then on the phone. He has called me from different numbers that I have a telephone book starting (LOL) ... He says he is interested, am I safe to assume it is ok to call him without asking him first? He has called me several times throughout the day since we started talking. How much is too much communication?? I don't want to inundate him with texts or vms when I can't get a hold of him. Is talking everyday too much? If you don't talk everyday, should one feel slighted?

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:30 AM
ask him what he's comfortable with

Tankk's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:30 AM
Communication is 2 way street so you should call him as well; doesn't have to be on a daily basis until it gets serious.

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:30 AM
Call him & find out

irad8you's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:31 AM
whatever you feel comfortable with, maybe its just me, but calling you from several numbers just seems like a small red flag, i don't know.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:31 AM
RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

no photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:32 AM
Edited by smiless on Sat 06/14/08 10:33 AM
I believe it is only natural to want to spend every moment together if both are interested in each other. You thrive and urge to want to know more about the person is a great feeling. Perhaps you both can actually meet and go places together also. Do some activities and really get to know each other more then just phone calls!

To answer your question: I don't believe it is too much if both really enjoy each other.

Good luck and alot of fun!:smile:

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:32 AM
if he is calling from dofferent numbers all th time,,,,that might be a small flag being held up,,,,,,,let him do th calling for now,,,,,make him hungrylaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

irad8you's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:32 AM

RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
great minds think alike

grneyedldy1967's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:32 AM

RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I would question this also....

Tankk's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:32 AM

whatever you feel comfortable with, maybe its just me, but calling you from several numbers just seems like a small red flag, i don't know.

C'mon guys he might just be calling from all his baby momma houses.:tongue:

bgeorge's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:32 AM

RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

follow that bear!!!!!!!!!

JaceKnows's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:32 AM
Edited by JaceKnows on Sat 06/14/08 10:36 AM

RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Uh, yeah, she's right. NOT good!

dbad111's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:33 AM
ummm call if he doesnt pick up give it a few hours and try again
if its early morning try that then wait till 7 or 8 at night
and if he doesnt pick up try calling back the next day

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:33 AM
(((irad))) "Jinks!" laugh Long time no see!

irad8you's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:33 AM

(((irad))) "Jinks!" laugh Long time no see!
hi ((((teddy))))

no photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:34 AM

RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I agree...

no photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:35 AM
all good questions......may be his wife can answer them?!:wink: laugh

irad8you's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:36 AM

all good questions......may be his wife can answer them?!:wink: laugh
laugh no kidding

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:36 AM

RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i agree..too many numbers....either lives with his mom, or a serial killer

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