I never heard anyone complaining about JSH except that we wanted some more e-cons........why all this crap? Leave it alone, forget the e-cons and keep things the way they are. In fact you changed everthing except the e-cons haha.

JSH is fine the way it is......complaints are more about the changes than anything anyone ever complained about JSH!

If it ain't broke, don't fix it. These colors are nasty and orange is no better than red.......why not keep the cool colors of blue that are easier on the eyes?

Come on Owners......just listen to us and make up our minds.......seems that is the way it is going to go wether we like it or not but I think you will be losing so many great members and if you think "so what" there are billions of others who will take thier place, then you don't care about us really, you just care about $$$ and sponsors.

Show what you really care about and address this issue please.

Amen!

There are no different people over there to expand our options , so why change?? Makes no sense

Hey Pat, I just checked that new site and they haven't changed the name "Mutual Matches" yet! Give it time and they will no doubt change it to something like "Common Resemblings"

I waited and you never showed! Storry of my life.

Well, after reading this whole three page discussion, I remember first coming to this site and mingle merged with JSH. Everything has been fine to me since I've been here...and I agree about the orange and emoticons, but as far anything else goes, I love this site. Why change any other format or merge with another site? This goes to show, that communism and freedom of choice are going out the window. The people don't have a choice. So it is the option of four people compared to thousands, that want to change. If you just did the basics of changing color schemes and adding emoticons, that would be it...otherwise why? What happened to One+You...did it fail? I know the color schemes were atrocious. I didn't care about the format. No testimonials for friends. Now, they want to merge with mingle2. This is our family...why tear it apart. So many people have come here and shared their souls and now they want to tear it apart. To sum it up...I won't be posting anymore poetry or writes, when JSH goes. So if anybody would like to keep in touch with me as well, email me and I will be glad to share my email and such. Have a great day.

Why can't they give the users the ability to choose their own colors, fonts etc. in the individual accounts??? I am sure that it is possible with all this NEW technology you are trying out on us guienne pigs!!!

Wolf, I think you will find that a lot of people feel the same as you. Eventually, if everyone leaves because of the name and other changes, they will have to change the name again to something like "The 4 Of Us"

A dating site with just 4 men. How far do you think they will get?

Nicely said! *Claps*

well at least we know mirror would stick around

I was peeking through the window...........

You will NOT be alone. But do you think they really care? They may say they do, but actions speak louder then words.

Then you were looking in the wrong window! I do not have one in my bathroom!

Feeling like a lab rat yet?

Hi Whisper, it's not a matter whether I care whether they care or not, I know a lot of my friends look forward to my poetry, so if they want to see any of my new stuff when this becomes history, they will have to go to helium and see them or either write me and I will be glad to share. I don't understand why they can't do this like the People's Choice Awards....let the people speak and vote.

I saw some woman naked

Come on folks, this is a business.
I would bet that if you knew all that the OWNERS know & you were part of the admin; you would be supporting all that they do.

Technology changes, tax laws change, industries change. Somehow, someway, in some manner; this place has to pay the bills. We get it FREE.
I will be staying, because reality is; most of us will stay.

I HOPE all of the people I am aquainted with/enjoy reading of/ care about...STAY.

Best site I have found in 5 yrs.
Looking for me, I will be here.

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Don't want to say good bye...

Hi Sage, I know it's business, but businesses are a conglomeration of the people. The people is what makes something stronger. Thousands of heads with ideas would be better than four. I've been here since Sept and have enjoyed making a family out of the people I have come to know and love. It's like a family reunion. But, it's going to be like hornets invading the picnic, everybody will scatter and leave, and I don't want to be the one left to get stung.