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Topic: DO YOU THINK THAT IT'S OK...
beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Sat 06/14/08 08:12 AM
jmobut I think 30 yr old men and 18 yr old women are at 2 totally different stages in their life! Most likely the 30 yr old man is really immature... Marry Me

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 06/14/08 08:13 AM
jmobut I think 30 yr old men and 18 yr old women are at 2 totally different stages in their life! Most likely the 30 yr old man is really immature... Marry Me how old are you???

Intrepid00 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 269	Sat 06/14/08 08:34 AM
jmobut I think 30 yr old men and 18 yr old women are at 2 totally different stages in their life! Most likely the 30 yr old man is really immature... I beg to differ haha...If it was a 22 year old man and a 14 year old girl then yes, 2 different stages in life because the girl is in high school still cared for by her parents and the guy is out in the world dealing with life but if you are both adults then you are both out in the world dealing with life on life's terms.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 06/14/08 08:36 AM
and you dont see a 30 year old man and a 18 year old girl at different stages???? Ive been through many different stages in my life.....youre still young and havent gone through as many and I have......but you are allowed to beg to differ......Im just Right!!!

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sat 06/14/08 08:55 AM
for 29-30 year old men to date 18 or 19 year old women? Or even if the men are older. In my opinion, age is just a number and you have to assess the person; not how old they are. As long as the woman is an adult it's ok in my opinion. What do YOU think?? Card her. That way at minimum, you wont be placed prominently on http://www.familywatchdog.us

Intrepid00 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 269	Sat 06/14/08 12:18 PM
and you dont see a 30 year old man and a 18 year old girl at different stages???? Ive been through many different stages in my life.....youre still young and havent gone through as many and I have......but you are allowed to beg to differ......Im just Right!!! I think it depends on the 30 year old man but I'm 29 and I JUST TURNED 29 but sure I've changed since 18 but the changes have been pretty subtle compared to going from 15-18 when you go from being a school boy living with your parents to an adult out in the world...so you can think you are right...but you aren't

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 06/14/08 12:32 PM
for 29-30 year old men to date 18 or 19 year old women? Or even if the men are older. In my opinion, age is just a number and you have to assess the person; not how old they are. As long as the woman is an adult it's ok in my opinion. What do YOU think?? I think it's insane that sooooooooooooooooooooooooo many threads are written about this subject. Date who you want. BE HAPPY BRAVO!! right on, fade!!

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Sat 06/14/08 12:38 PM
18 - 19 year old female = adult This does not compute will robinson.....Seriously Not discounting those that have had to grow up fast, I did, but most 18-19 year olds don't have a clue about where they are or what that want out of life. And if a 29 year old isn't past that stage I would worry. If you are looking for a play mate fine and dandy keep right on dating that age bracket. If you are looking for a real relationship at least find someone in your own age range.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 06/14/08 12:42 PM
for 29-30 year old men to date 18 or 19 year old women? Or even if the men are older. In my opinion, age is just a number and you have to assess the person; not how old they are. As long as the woman is an adult it's ok in my opinion. What do YOU think?? Do whatever you want to do. IN MY OPINION... BASED ON MY EXPERIENCE... MY THOUGHTS ON THE MATTER ARE... Just wanted to make sure that was clear. You are in two totally different places in your life. You're dating arm candy, and if that's what you want great... I can say this because I was an 18 and 19 year old girl once. I did not have the emotional stamina for a 30something year old guy.

tim20721 Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 740	Sat 06/14/08 12:44 PM
It's legal but I wouldn't do it. I have kids that age, and have found that whats important in that age group doesn't really matter to people my age. Nothing in common, nothing to talk about=nothing of a relationship. Can't spend all your time in bed.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 06/14/08 12:47 PM
for 29-30 year old men to date 18 or 19 year old women? Or even if the men are older. In my opinion, age is just a number and you have to assess the person; not how old they are. As long as the woman is an adult it's ok in my opinion. What do YOU think?? Do whatever you want to do. IN MY OPINION... BASED ON MY EXPERIENCE... MY THOUGHTS ON THE MATTER ARE... Just wanted to make sure that was clear. You are in two totally different places in your life. You're dating arm candy, and if that's what you want great... I can say this because I was an 18 and 19 year old girl once. I did not have the emotional stamina for a 30something year old guy. Wait. let me clairify, I STILL DON'T HAVE THE EMOTIONAL STAMINA FOR A 30 SOMETHING YEAR OLD GUY...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 06/14/08 12:54 PM
Hmm, if I date 2 19 year old girls then together they would just about be my age, I love it when a plan comes togeter

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sat 06/14/08 12:57 PM
It is really funny to me, the way youth so often thinks that the experience most gain with age, means nothing. Hopefully time will educate the young as it did us.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 06/14/08 12:57 PM
Hmm, if I date 2 19 year old girls then together they would just about be my age, I love it when a plan comes togeter

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 06/14/08 12:57 PM
Hmm, if I date 2 19 year old girls then together they would just about be my age, I love it when a plan comes togeter Or one 34...er, 26 year old...she'd rock your world Pats...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 06/14/08 01:00 PM
Hmm, if I date 2 19 year old girls then together they would just about be my age, I love it when a plan comes togeter Or one 34...er, 26 year old...she'd rock your world Pats... I'm up for that

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 06/14/08 01:02 PM
It is really funny to me, the way youth so often thinks that the experience most gain with age, means nothing. Hopefully time will educate the young as it did us. You know it will... it comes with age though. I've always said it's too bad we can't go backwards in life... gain our knowledge, and have fun with it in our youth...

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Sat 06/14/08 01:03 PM
Hmm, if I date 2 19 year old girls then together they would just about be my age, I love it when a plan comes togeter Or one 34...er, 26 year old...she'd rock your world Pats... I'm up for that you sure?

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sat 06/14/08 01:06 PM
Hmm, if I date 2 19 year old girls then together they would just about be my age, I love it when a plan comes togeter Or one 34...er, 26 year old...she'd rock your world Pats... I'm up for that you sure? SHhhhhhhhhhh. he knows not what of he speaks... let me have that huh?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 06/14/08 01:07 PM
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