I have trouble making a first move sometimes. Any advice?

tell them you have a lovely bunch of coconuts

you are what i was nervous of rejection its nothing to be scared of
dont be afraid the worst they can do is say no

i was shy too when i was 17 i always thought that if a girl wated me she will come to me
that didnt work very well
and fact is i had a lot of girls who liked me in school i just never thought about talking to them and asking them out on dates
now i always ask the girl first
once u do it a few times u wont even think about doing it
but the first to times you will be nervous of rejection

You just have to take pride and throw it aside and do what you got to do,,, Don't be shy,,If you see someone you think you might like send them a note and see what happen's...

Just go for it, the worst that will ever happen is that OMG...you might get rejected and your ego might get a little bruised but, I promise that you'll recover. Life's too short.

Hope a girl reads this post and takes pity?

Sounds like you just need a little confidence. Your description of yourself makes you sound like the man a LOT of women out there are looking for. More women find a sense of humor more important in a man than any other quality. That doesn't mean she expects you to be a stand-up comic. It means that if something is funny, you would smile or laugh, and you would see the humor in every day things, and comment on it.

Lots of women don't care for "tall, dark and handsome". Every woman has her own physical type
that she prefers. Some women like blonds, some brunettes, some shaved heads. Some like men
5' 8" and some like men who are 6' 5". And an awful lot of women don't even think of how much
money the man she is seeing makes. I know men won't believe it, but it's true.

More women would like to meet a nice man with a gentle touch than a man with a mercedes. One of women's most common complaints about sex is that they wish that men were more gentle. I know that I prefer a man who can touch me softly, rather than grab whatever part he has hold of.

It is men that feel that an enormous penis is an asset. Most women are perfectly happy with a man with an average-sized ****. A lot of women are even intimidated by extremely large penises, afraid that they will hurt, which they sometimes do.

Which leads us to how to talk to a woman - just like you would talk to anyone else. Women are people, you know. So when you meet a woman that you are attracted to, talk to her like you would talk to anyone else. Don't try pickup lines or comment on her looks first thing. There is no turnoff like a guy that walks up to you in the store and says "Hey, you're a hot-looking chick". It sounds as much like a cheap pickup line as it is.

After you have talked with a woman for a while, if the chemistry is right, invite her for coffee or ask for her phone number - but NEVER push. Not everyone is attracted to everyone. Just be yourself and allow the women you meet to be themselves, and you will find relationships.

Can I be 21 again????

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GOOD WORK BUDDY

Dude, what is it with you and coconuts?

you dont know yet ? ive explained it on here sooooo many times

Yeah, I had that problem too in High School. By the way, I thought you went to sleep.

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I'm the exact same way. I'm trying to be more outgoing, I can always do it online. In person can be a bit difficult for me. 4 years of home schooling can really damage your social skills.

Relax ... for every guy that's afraid of coming on too strong or being seen as too pushy, there are 5 girls sitting there wondering what's wrong with them - why won't that nice, cute guy just talk to them, smile, ANYTHING. Take a chance - start by reading a bunch of profiles and if you have a good reaction to a few (they make you laugh, you notice similar interests, etc.) send out some quick emails. They don't have to be literary masterpieces, just "Hi, I noticed that you like X - I actually own 17 X's and am always interested in meeting new people who enjoy them too -- maybe we could chat sometime?" I swear, it's really that easy. Either she'll be like "Yeah, FINALLY someone's taken the time to read my profile and contact me" or she'll be involved elsewhere, too lazy or self-centred to respond ... and you'll move on to someone else - no harm, no foul.

This dating stuff isn't for the faint of heart ... I TOTALLY get that ... but I think the possible rewards far outweigh the risk. Good luck with your search.