Topic: what do you do when
ozzy_lover's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:30 AM
Edited by ozzy_lover on Thu 06/12/08 06:31 AM
The guy that likes you cuddles with you and actually talks to you, and even tries to kiss you, but hasn't asked you out yet? Because physically i am ready to be with this man, but mentally i am waiting for him to ask me out, its kind of a brick wall thats holding me back. Should i go with the flow, or should i talk to him about it?

shaung35's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:33 AM
go with the flow, just don't give it up til You get what You want, but don't rush ,or push a potential good thing...just My opinion...

FaithfulOne78's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:34 AM
If your waiting and wanting more...talk to him....communication key!flowerforyou flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:35 AM
Live in the now...........go with the flow and make babies!:wink: laugh

lilith401's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:37 AM
Ummmmmm. If he actually talks to you, why not try talking about it? Like was already posted, communication is key.

EquineEngineer's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:38 AM
Don't just go with the flow. You need to stick to what your heart is telling you. I don't want to talk bad about this guy because I don't know what kind of person he is, but the vast majority of guys acting like this have one thing in mind. They are willing to work and wait for it for a short time, then once they get it, they're down the road to next vulnerable victim. If you really like him, and can see a future with him, then you should talk to him about it and find out what his REAL intentions are. Don't settle for less than what you deserve, and don't let this guy take advantage of you. Make sure that he is in this to love and respect you... not just to get a peice and disappear. Best of luck!

robert1652's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:38 AM

The guy that likes you cuddles with you and actually talks to you, and even tries to kiss you, but hasn't asked you out yet? Because physically i am ready to be with this man, but mentally i am waiting for him to ask me out, its kind of a brick wall thats holding me back. Should i go with the flow, or should i talk to him about it?



should I stay or should I go.
If you remain a brick wall for long take the consequences of of the passing dogs.
On the other hand are you sure you are receiving the signals correctly or you are translating them to suit your inner self.
Big problem
have a another drink
many problems are solved when drunk.drinker drinker flowerforyou flowerforyou laugh laugh laugh

ozzy_lover's photo
Thu 06/12/08 06:47 AM
I think your right. Good way to word that one. Interesting.