i have been dating this guy for about 2 months now. i really liked him. well one day this week, he called and ask would i come over. i did and we ended up having sex for the first time (unprotected). well yesterday i came home to check my messages, and i hear a female voice saying, i was sleeping with her HUSBAND. i cried cause i really liked this guy. she called this morning and i answeres it and she told me that they have been married for 5 years and have 2 boys together. i knew about the 2 boys cause i babysat them for him one day just like he babysat mine for me. the boys was the ages off 2 and 4. and they were the one who told their mom that i was coming over while she worked at night. well a little while ago gues who called wanting me to come over. why do i get the married men or men who love to cheat. and why men so dirty and evil. im thinking about putting men to the side and try my luck at women

darlin...i told ya...concentrate on YOUR son and BUY some TOYS!!!!!

they're like the toucan bird for fruitloops, they follow their penis whereever it goes.

time for a horse

Men are scum. Plain and simple. I think it's something genetic in us. You just have to find the ones who have figured that out and decided to rise above the rest...

we are not all like that . just need to find the right one

one bad apple

I've been in a very similar situation. But I was told they were getting divorced, until I started getting emails from her. I know how you're feeling & it's a very hard thing to get through. But you will, keep your chin up & ditch him. You're worth more than that!

end it don't split a family up jmo

omg

one bad apple? every man i been with has been married

Yep. God I love Tina...

Jerks come in both genders. It's not just men who behave this way. But, I sure hope you find someone better as you deserve better.

WHOA...I saw that show in MEXICO...

yep

you should find the one's who are proud of their weiner
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Not every man is going to be like that. It sounds like you need to concentrate on loving yourself for a while, then when you least expect it someone wonderful will come along and sweep you off your feet.

and never have UNPROTECTED sex

weren't the "signs" there? you went to his home.. her belongings weren't there? pictures?

Some signs a man is married:

#1 - not available on weekends
#2 - never gives out home phone number, only cell
#3 - the majority of your conversations are during work hours
#4 - doesn't invite you over to his place
#5 - gives you the I'm "seperated" line.. chances are, he is..the wife just doesn't know about it. Ladies look up online to actually see the divorce papers!

ok..that's my two cents

You didn't see the clues? As important as it is to have your feelings, it's also important to reflect on the situation, noting anything that might be suspicious about the situation. That way, at least some red flags pop up and you don't have to go through this again. Everyone who hides something eventually tells on themselves sometimes without their knowledge. You just have to listen for it.

For example, recently, a person I was a friend to, said, "I'm good at making rich friends.", and in an act of kindness offering legitimate but easy work to help her work herself out of a legal jam she put herself into, she told someone else I knew, "He signed the paper, he's got to pay", and promptly stopped working. One week later, accepted her resignation, and notified the appropriate agencies of her employment status, effectively unsigning the garnishment paper, and she lost the best friend she ever had. People do tell on themselves, some more obvious than others, but it happens.