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What if you feel like you need time and space for yourself, how do you explain this to your significant other ?
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just be honest
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Just say honey, I need some space
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good question!! don't know the right answer though
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Hun, when you find out please let me know.
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throw ur phone in the river, dissapear for a few weeks unexplainably. dont wash, be a mess. return home. 'honey, you will NEVER believe what happened to me....'
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get th fu+k out,,,,,,,,hows that????
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It's not you, it's ME!!! It's all about meeeeeeeeee.
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What if you have your own hobbies and interests and your significant other constantly makes demands on your time?
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I say something to the effect of "Get the f*ck out of my face before I hit you with a cast iron skillet" er...something like that... Or... I disappear with no words... We'll argue when I get back...
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Then they are selfish.
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What if you feel like you need time and space for yourself, how do you explain this to your significant other ? tell her |
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I'd just walk away................................
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ask her why she cant be more like her sister/best friend
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What if you have your own hobbies and interests and your significant other constantly makes demands on your time? the key is not putting things up for debate.. This is how it's going to work...PERIOD. However if they want their time and space too, you have to respect that. You have to be able to back up what you say... If they argue and say they are going to leave you because of it... You say "Ok, sorry you feel that way, I'm sorry my happiness isn't important to you." and be ready for them to walk... If they do, you were better off without them to begin with. |
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I'd just walk away................................ |
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPKUdoBKVqc
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPKUdoBKVqc |
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPKUdoBKVqc I love her... she's angry like me.... |
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lock them in the basement and take off
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