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oh yea,... we pay....and pay ....and pay... yup not for me romeo, i always pay my own way. i just think on a first date, its nice for the man to pay. I was replying to the other "Kind" of paying lol |
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yes they should.. if there asking you out, they should be the one paying i agree, i guess things have just changed now, and some people are so stingy |
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Wed 06/11/08 11:06 AM
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so, to the other question
are you tight or generous with your money?? people get shocked i give my neice £40.00 every month and bu her things to, if i have the money why not, and i love treating my neice. |
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yes they should.. if there asking you out, they should be the one paying i agree, i guess things have just changed now, and some people are so stingy i will lol |
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once..... a woman dropped her penny on the floor in k-mart i swan dove for it in the middle of aisle 3 the security says when they played back the tape my form was amazing *Thumbs Up* |
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I've never let a woman pay for anything when she was with me. Heck, I bought my friend Roni a houseplant one day. I guess I did make her give me a hug now and two to be named later, but she didn't lay out any cash. I even paid for everything the day my ex took me out to an amuesement park for my birthday. She was kind of mad towards the end of the night, "I'm supposed to be treating YOU!!" was yelled more than once.
However, I'd say I'm tight with my money, I hate spending money on trivalities. I don't mind paying for some things (food, movies, activities), but hate purchasing non essential items (toys, furnishings, clothing{new stuff}), if I've got something that works, I don't need anything new. I don't desire having a bunch of cra* filling my house. No one's going to want any of it when I'm gone, so why collect it now. |
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I was on a date several years back and after dinner I gave the waiter my card. He returned a few minutes later and said "Your card has been declined" My face turned red and then he said "we don't accept Piggly Wiggly cards here" Piggly Wiggly is a grocery store and the card was a customer card. Needless to say I gave him the right card and all was fine. |
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yes they should.. if there asking you out, they should be the one paying i agree, i guess things have just changed now, and some people are so stingy It depends on the situation. I've always been the sole provider in any significant relationship, so paying is often not even thought about. It just happens. I wouldn't call myself stingy, but I do consider whether or not helping someone out with a situation is actually hurting them, by making them helpless. |
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I don't want to say as I might get "tapped"!! |
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God please will you just use my real name! Its bill! |
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Edited by
debbie1980
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Wed 06/11/08 11:08 AM
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my ex would very rarley call me, because he didnt want to pay the bill, so instead i had to call him all the time, that was unfair. he was so stingy, it drove me mad, thats part of the reason i left him. i mean geeez he wont ring me, but he expects me to ring him all the time, no way!!!
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I don't want to say as I might get "tapped"!! |
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yes they should.. if there asking you out, they should be the one paying i agree, i guess things have just changed now, and some people are so stingy It depends on the situation. I've always been the sole provider in any significant relationship, so paying is often not even thought about. It just happens. I wouldn't call myself stingy, but I do consider whether or not helping someone out with a situation is actually hurting them, by making them helpless. i understand. im the sort of person where if ive got money ill spend it on myself and other people |
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yes they should.. if there asking you out, they should be the one paying i agree, i guess things have just changed now, and some people are so stingy i will lol |
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I've never let a woman pay for anything when she was with me. Heck, I bought my friend Roni a houseplant one day. I guess I did make her give me a hug now and two to be named later, but she didn't lay out any cash. I even paid for everything the day my ex took me out to an amuesement park for my birthday. She was kind of mad towards the end of the night, "I'm supposed to be treating YOU!!" was yelled more than once. However, I'd say I'm tight with my money, I hate spending money on trivalities. I don't mind paying for some things (food, movies, activities), but hate purchasing non essential items (toys, furnishings, clothing{new stuff}), if I've got something that works, I don't need anything new. I don't desire having a bunch of cra* filling my house. No one's going to want any of it when I'm gone, so why collect it now. |
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I've never let a woman pay for anything when she was with me. Heck, I bought my friend Roni a houseplant one day. I guess I did make her give me a hug now and two to be named later, but she didn't lay out any cash. I even paid for everything the day my ex took me out to an amuesement park for my birthday. She was kind of mad towards the end of the night, "I'm supposed to be treating YOU!!" was yelled more than once. However, I'd say I'm tight with my money, I hate spending money on trivalities. I don't mind paying for some things (food, movies, activities), but hate purchasing non essential items (toys, furnishings, clothing{new stuff}), if I've got something that works, I don't need anything new. I don't desire having a bunch of cra* filling my house. No one's going to want any of it when I'm gone, so why collect it now. IM not stingy with buying anything, especially clothes, as i get designer ones. |
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