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Topic: why do people stay in bad relationships
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Mon 06/09/08 06:25 PM
love love love love love

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I'm surprised I'm single actually


i dress up everyday
i grab my power ranger suit and go out in public

i even wear my mighty morphin helmet(pink)

and when i see a guy i really want to impress i start flipping around and do cartwheels now you would think most guys would appreciate that

I'll never understand men grumble grumble grumble



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Mon 06/09/08 06:30 PM
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brooke007's photo
Mon 06/09/08 06:31 PM

brokenheart grumble



because because because...
they are scared for some reason or other

or they think they can FIX itbrokenheart

Jess642's photo
Mon 06/09/08 06:50 PM
Addiction...poor self esteem, co-dependency, emotionally needy...etc etc...

...also fear,(which can render one incapable of acting for oneself)

A gazillion reasons, as someone mentioned, the martyr rescuer type too..(they think they can 'fix'the other)..

Warped view of what love is...ie; 'he really does love me, and only hits me when he is tired...mad at the football score... when I do something wrong...etc, etc'

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 06/10/08 12:53 AM

brokenheart grumble


Learned helplessness, low self-esteem, low self-worth, to name a few.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:18 AM
flowerforyou maybe I dont want to feel like I wasted my timeflowerforyou

kk35695's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:24 AM
Yep. Mirrors' right. .......Come here girl ....I'll show you exactly what he means....bigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:32 AM

Yep. Mirrors' right. .......Come here girl ....I'll show you exactly what he means....bigsmile
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izzie's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:41 AM
speaking from experience...
they are afraid that they dont deserve any better..
or that even if they deserve better..
sometimes it seems thatit is better to be with ANYONE than NOONE!!!

and sometimes you can dilude yourself into beleving that things are not as bad as they really are...

any reason there is.. support, and reassure that there are better ways.. and get any help that you can for that person..
flowerforyou :cry: flowerforyou

kk35695's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:45 AM
I love you izze. :heart:
Familliar...

izzie's photo
Tue 06/10/08 01:48 AM

I love you izze. :heart:
Familliar...
a bit to..
thanks..
:heart:

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Tue 06/10/08 04:14 AM
because they choose to be the willing victims... they see themselves as the one who is at fault...

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Tue 06/10/08 04:14 AM
because they choose to be the willing victims... they see themselves as the one who is at fault...

Def03's photo
Tue 06/10/08 04:17 AM
I do believe in that.
I see myself always giving to people that really dont have the same wants or goals that I want.

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Tue 06/10/08 04:19 AM

reformed Catholic,,,,,,drinker

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Tue 06/10/08 04:25 AM

i believe its called excited misery


Misery loves company laugh laugh

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Tue 06/10/08 05:29 AM
There are as many reasons as there are people.

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