Topic: why do people stay in bad relationships | |
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I'm surprised I'm single actually i dress up everyday i grab my power ranger suit and go out in public i even wear my mighty morphin helmet(pink) and when i see a guy i really want to impress i start flipping around and do cartwheels now you would think most guys would appreciate that I'll never understand men |
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because because because... they are scared for some reason or other or they think they can FIX it |
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Addiction...poor self esteem, co-dependency, emotionally needy...etc etc...
...also fear,(which can render one incapable of acting for oneself) A gazillion reasons, as someone mentioned, the martyr rescuer type too..(they think they can 'fix'the other).. Warped view of what love is...ie; 'he really does love me, and only hits me when he is tired...mad at the football score... when I do something wrong...etc, etc' |
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Learned helplessness, low self-esteem, low self-worth, to name a few. |
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maybe I dont want to feel like I wasted my time
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Yep. Mirrors' right. .......Come here girl ....I'll show you exactly what he means....
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Yep. Mirrors' right. .......Come here girl ....I'll show you exactly what he means.... |
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speaking from experience...
they are afraid that they dont deserve any better.. or that even if they deserve better.. sometimes it seems thatit is better to be with ANYONE than NOONE!!! and sometimes you can dilude yourself into beleving that things are not as bad as they really are... any reason there is.. support, and reassure that there are better ways.. and get any help that you can for that person.. |
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I love you izze.
Familliar... |
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I love you izze. Familliar... thanks.. |
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because they choose to be the willing victims... they see themselves as the one who is at fault...
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because they choose to be the willing victims... they see themselves as the one who is at fault...
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I do believe in that.
I see myself always giving to people that really dont have the same wants or goals that I want. |
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reformed Catholic,,,,,, |
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i believe its called excited misery Misery loves company |
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There are as many reasons as there are people.
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