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Topic: Well I just did it
rainysky39's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:17 PM


Run fast the other way! You did the right thing..no one needs to control you.


That's what I felt it would lead to and I am too old for that crap..

He was already trying it with his "jokes" if they werent in his mind he would have never said them.

Italy0219's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:18 PM

You did the right thing. If it wasn't there it wasn't there and never would be. You'd just end up hating yourself and him.



That's what was starting to happen, I felt like I could be bought...and it was not a good feeling, I really didn't have enough of the love stuff there..

Italy0219's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:19 PM



Run fast the other way! You did the right thing..no one needs to control you.


That's what I felt it would lead to and I am too old for that crap..

He was already trying it with his "jokes" if they werent in his mind he would have never said them.


Yep that is exactly what I thought, and he was dumb enough to say it..what a stooge he was, not to smart.

ZAfterlife's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:19 PM
RUN!
You would only ending up getting hurt in the long run and hating yourself.
But if you keep ending up in a similar situation you might need to stop and find out why?

Italy0219's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:21 PM

RUN!
You would only ending up getting hurt in the long run and hating yourself.
But if you keep ending up in a similar situation you might need to stop and find out why?

No this never happened to me before, I was totally taken aback, I never had anyone take me to the shore and buy me dinners, etc, that is why I hung around for while, 3 months , I don't make a habit of picking rich guys, in fact he asked me out first

Italy0219's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:22 PM
Thanks everyone really appreciate the support I get, thank you all so much...flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 06/08/08 08:23 PM
italy,
the only person you have to spend everyday of your life with....is yourself.....

sounds like you did what was right ....for youflowerforyou

ZAfterlife's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:24 PM


RUN!
You would only ending up getting hurt in the long run and hating yourself.
But if you keep ending up in a similar situation you might need to stop and find out why?

No this never happened to me before, I was totally taken aback, I never had anyone take me to the shore and buy me dinners, etc, that is why I hung around for while, 3 months , I don't make a habit of picking rich guys, in fact he asked me out first

Sorry-misread the part about breaking up with "him" previously. Seriously though-not trying to pass judgement!
You made a hard decision but you made the right one!

TheShadow's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:32 PM

I broke it off with a rich, fun, obnoxious guy who would do anything for me, almost. Yes he would take me everywhere, do almost anything, take me to his shore places, buy me stuff, but I did not feel much for him in the way of feelings, and he was asking for sex when I didn't want to, saying I owed him cause he showed me a good time. He said it was a joke, but I could see where it was going, he was a terrible kisser and not good at sex, took alot of antidepressants but kept his act together quite well. Did I do the wrong thing, should I have stayed for the money, and the fun?? What would you do??


Stay for money or fun? If you know where all this was going. Why the in the world did you play with this in the first place?


And itsmetina your little joke is not a joke. Yeah you may not like this, but you through things out there and when somone responds you say it's a jokehuh

This is why some men act the way they do. Hell if any of you say stay for the money you are as sad as the rest.


Italy0219! you want some real advice, talk to some real women, Like txsgal,fade Black,Marie55,eileena9,Gypsy41,SuzinVA,LAMom,iceprincess,SKPCG,catchme_ifucan,IndnPrncs. These are women that are going to tell you how it is and will be upfront with you....

itsmetina's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:34 PM
i could have married rich but i didn't

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:40 PM
If you don't love him break it off.

rainysky39's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:43 PM


I broke it off with a rich, fun, obnoxious guy who would do anything for me, almost. Yes he would take me everywhere, do almost anything, take me to his shore places, buy me stuff, but I did not feel much for him in the way of feelings, and he was asking for sex when I didn't want to, saying I owed him cause he showed me a good time. He said it was a joke, but I could see where it was going, he was a terrible kisser and not good at sex, took alot of antidepressants but kept his act together quite well. Did I do the wrong thing, should I have stayed for the money, and the fun?? What would you do??


Stay for money or fun? If you know where all this was going. Why the in the world did you play with this in the first place?


And itsmetina your little joke is not a joke. Yeah you may not like this, but you through things out there and when somone responds you say it's a jokehuh

This is why some men act the way they do. Hell if any of you say stay for the money you are as sad as the rest.


Italy0219! you want some real advice, talk to some real women, Like txsgal,fade Black,Marie55,eileena9,Gypsy41,SuzinVA,LAMom,iceprincess,SKPCG,catchme_ifucan,IndnPrncs. These are women that are going to tell you how it is and will be upfront with you....

You forgot me sad . I may joke about alot of things..serious things, no! Control and abuse I know alot about and will tell you everything I do know.

SadieJ's photo
Sun 06/08/08 08:44 PM
In a situation like you're describing, one word can solve it, Karma..flowerforyou

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Sun 06/08/08 09:47 PM

I broke it off with a rich, fun, obnoxious guy who would do anything for me, almost. Yes he would take me everywhere, do almost anything, take me to his shore places, buy me stuff, but I did not feel much for him in the way of feelings, and he was asking for sex when I didn't want to, saying I owed him cause he showed me a good time. He said it was a joke, but I could see where it was going, he was a terrible kisser and not good at sex, took alot of antidepressants but kept his act together quite well. Did I do the wrong thing, should I have stayed for the money, and the fun?? What would you do??


Punch him in the balls. Repeatedly. laugh

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Sun 06/08/08 11:02 PM

I broke it off with a rich, fun, obnoxious guy who would do anything for me, almost. Yes he would take me everywhere, do almost anything, take me to his shore places, buy me stuff, but I did not feel much for him in the way of feelings, and he was asking for sex when I didn't want to, saying I owed him cause he showed me a good time. He said it was a joke, but I could see where it was going, he was a terrible kisser and not good at sex, took alot of antidepressants but kept his act together quite well. Did I do the wrong thing, should I have stayed for the money, and the fun?? What would you do??
You did the right thing.......why stay with someone who doesnt fulfill you in all aspects???? You were only being true to yourself and him!!!drinker

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