Yeah...I'm totally a chick

That was kind of the same problem I had on other sites, kinda why I stuck around here. Plus, made really good friends on here, so yah'll are stuck with me :P

Mine lives in Texas, I'm on the Alabama/Georgia border...hoping to be able to make the move out there this December or January...hence why I said, if it's meant to be..things will just work to that favor. But good luck hon! *extra hugs for yah*

BRAVO!!!!!! Well said on all points

why dont you post a pic of youself????????

Thanks hon. If nothing else I meet a lot of other very nice lonely people. I'll find someone. I hope things work out for you!

These sites work if you let them work, it is a great place to meet people and possibly more, I have met some great people on these sites, and I think this brings up many great points.

These sites are great for people who are shy and have difficulties meeting people in public places. It is great to be in a calm familiar place when you meet someone on the internet. That is the big appeal of them.

I did have one, and I have a couple in my pics...but decided to put some of my own artwork up as well. Why not? It's certainly a part of who I am.

You're welcome, and exactly! I love making new friends and meeting new people, and me too! *crosses fingers* Gamma's a great guy though, total sweetheart

It's all good!!!!!!!!

see :P

Dear op,

I have the answere ,

The problem is that i have been on seval differnt dating site's and i have seen a lot on them all .And what the problem is that to many people are self centerd and very selfish and all they care aboult is what they want and do they find happyness and love i think not.

I believe not in the look's or what they have or who they are because there not perfect and nor am i .

I alway's went from the heart and soul not for who they are because behind the looks ect how dose the person realy know untill they took that chance in getting to know them what if the person had a realy good heart.

But any how i have also noticed a lot of female's dont want a man if they dont own a house,car,a well paying or even better if that man should tell them they had gotten a vasectomy what next the women ups and leaves and never talks to that guy again because all she's doing is thinking of her self.

That's the problem in today's dating site's it's alway's want want and more want never give and the people out there who dose this never understood why they cant find that special some one i wonder why.


Iam real and thank goodness i was raised right i never once judged any one for who they where or what they looked like im what you would call very rare.

I must of viwed seval profile's and that's all i ever seen in them was that it's sad because not every one was born with a silver spoon in there mouth wake up people this is real life not fantasy .

But thats my opion not that iam saying all women are doing it but that is what i have seen on three differnt sites and the worst site to go to is plentyoffish thats all you see there .

Sadly, yes...that's about right Mike. The thing is though, half of those people don't really realize they're doing it. That's why I say, take your time and get to know someone for who they are, not what they are.

at least we have that in common and have a strong understanding what life is all about it dont matter what a person looks like or who they are as soon as a person see's a person with money or looks or even a place they jump right in to it befor realizing what they are getting them selfs in to .

like i stated they need to get out of the clowds and wake up and realize that life is to damn short to mess around .