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Topic: why are MOST men afraid of commitment?
YourLove1's photo
Sun 06/08/08 10:51 AM
Again ? this question was just asked last week

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 06/08/08 10:51 AM
I was married once, that was enough for me!! But I can have a commited relationship whith the right person:smile:

YourLove1's photo
Sun 06/08/08 10:51 AM
But its just not us Men , alot of women are the same way

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Sun 06/08/08 10:53 AM
maybe they're too posessive of their lovely bunch of coconuts? drinker

YourLove1's photo
Sun 06/08/08 10:55 AM

maybe they're too posessive of their lovely bunch of coconuts? drinker
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darkowl1's photo
Sun 06/08/08 11:05 AM
marriage is in the heart, not a piece of paper, i've seen men and women turn into instant asswipes over-night, because of that piece of ownership. when the heart was in it, marriage was good, when it was for security, or insecurity, it got bitter, and fell apart for it was not based on trust but fear. also religion can play a part in this as well. if a relationship lasts, it lasts. if it doesn't, a marriage is a way for one to take legally, the others entire savings before marriage before the relationship ever happened unless there was a prenuptial agreement. some men and women need to sit down with themselves and think about what marriage really is. it's a joining of two people forever, and divorce should be out of the question. it's a commitment like no other, and it should be, but in today's times the first ones called a called a starter marriage....go figure....why would anyone want to do that, considering the legal ramifacations of today? i've seen this through a half century, and beyond.....it's changed from years ago, the native americans hand fast. when they fall out of love, it's a sad time, but they realize that people grow apart, even though the love was once pure. it happens. they try to even everything out, even through bitterness. if they stay friends, it goes smoother, and they help each other out, also the tribe helps out with kids and generallities, but not with white people, it's all lawyers. i will never have another relationship, other than friendship, ever. no need. too much to do, and it was always uneven. the relationship was always on their terms, or i was walking on eggshells. not worth it to me. not that it matters, nobody comes with-in 50 feet of me anyway, that's really me in the pic....

Chazster's photo
Sun 06/08/08 06:07 PM
This is such a simple question. Men are the male species right? We may be human, but we still have the instincts of our animal counterparts. In nature, the male of the species doesn't typically commit to one mate. They try to spread their seed with as many females as possible.

Sure we are more intelligent and can make conscious decisions, but that instinct to freely go from female to female is still there. Some people find it harder to overcome than others.

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