so my advice.. just don't answer the door in that white mask... kinda looks like a scene from the movie strangers

C'mon, guy. Take her out or meet her some place. Do something outdoors. Then get drinks or something. Cooking for her at home is what you do when you want to get laid. On second thought, forget what I said. If you want to eat out then cook the meal at home and take out on the porch.

I am a trusting sort. Though, I do not ignore my red flag's.

i love to cook and can out cook most of the cooks in town and do it for a 3rd the price............i was just wondering what everyone thought........thanks guys

I'm on my way

Sure thing!!What's 4 dinner?

i once met a guy at a resturant.... on hwy 99 in tigard real busy street i parked by the street.... first thing he said to me was dont mind the waitresses if they look weird at you... its just cause i come in here all the time... i thought ok weird thing to say..... felt safe cause it was so public.... after dinner he walked me to my car ...parked by busy street mind u..... he pinned my hands above my head i said let me go! he didnt !!!! it was outside before i opened my car door.... and he layed a sloppy kiss on me!!!! as i struggled.... finally i broke away.... got in my car somehow and drove off with the food sitting atop the car! now.... should i have gone to his house for dinner? hummmmmm that happened after i didnt want to go to his house to meet his freaking cat!

no kidding! "it puts the lotion in the basket..."

myheart if u are doing the cooking what if u didnt click on the first date? or even third? and she is a psyco cause u dont want to see her like that anymore and she wants you to be her bf? huh? she knows where to go to watch u... and where to go slice tires etc..... trust me there are some weirdos out there.... best to get a vibe in person first.... i had one guy online that wrote everything i had said in the past..... thats creepy..... if i had mentioned a guys name to him once he knew the name!!!! and i mean a yr later i didnt realize what he was doing till the end! further more he had written down other peoples screennames if they had multiple ones and told me all their screennames they had used in the past!

i guess i'm just a naive country boy that still sleeps with his door unlocked.......i always trust people .......just the way i was raised

i did too but am more careful now...... i hope u are safe is all

I don't worry about guys,
muahahaha!

Let them come visit me!

But Winx, I make a nice spagetti in clam sauce.

It depends if you know each other prior to dating, why not? But if you're just meeting, I wouldn't do it.

Yum.