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Topic: WHAAT AGE DOES PREJUDICE STARTS
SCURLOCK's photo
Thu 06/05/08 09:09 AM

I am curious, where was the racist for the past 6 months?
he had left her for some one else

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Thu 06/05/08 09:11 AM
I cant believe this type of thinking still exists........noway noway noway noway

SCURLOCK's photo
Thu 06/05/08 09:12 AM



WOW WOW WOW I am so shocked at this I just can't believe it. noway noway noway noway

I think it is really sad that the mother didn't stand up for her son and do the right thing by him. I think by doing this, she is condoning her husband's behavior, regardless of her apology. Can you imagine how hurt and confused these two little boys are feeling?

My heart really goes out to you and your grandson.flowerforyou flowerforyou
my grand son still wants to go over and shake his friend hand because he thinks its something he did and i try to tell him it's the fault of an ahole who will not let kids be kids


And I'll bet you any amount of money that the other little boy is worried that his friend thinks he doesn't like him anymore or thinks that he is mad at him.


he thinks that if he shakes jason hand it will all be okay again he gets up everymorning wanting to go over a play the 360 with him and then about noon they woudd come over and mess up my housebigsmile just being kids you know man it still hurts and makes me angry cause i want to fix this for him he is a sad little boy because of this b-s

SCURLOCK's photo
Thu 06/05/08 09:13 AM

I cant believe this type of thinking still exists........noway noway noway noway
me either but to our unbelief it stll around for our children and grand:angry:

scttrbrain's photo
Thu 06/05/08 10:52 AM
Oh oh oh...this is sooo sad in this day and age. Children have friends at school now days that are different than them. How dare this man think he can say such things to a child that lives daily in this world of rainbows.

This man is a bigot...he is most likely an abuser as well. Mentally if not physically.

Make sure your grandchild knows that there are people out there that are just plain ole stupid. Let him know that this man just showed he is not the one he was friends with. That his friend is most likely hurt and scared as well. That this man does not care how he hurts people. That the child has no power to change this man as of yet. If they go to the same school he can be his friend there. Tell him that the mom is probably scared to stand up to this man. She most likely is; due to the fact she apologized.

Mkae sure your young man keeps his head up and knows that he is okay. That he should be and can be proud of who he is. That he did nothing wrong. It was the dad that is wrong. His decision. That the child is not at fault....neither one of them.

Tell him that there is going to be a time real soon when he will know that his color or heritage is one to never ever let someone take him down for.

Let him watch and learn of Obama. This other child is going to be so confused when and if this man becomes President. Wonder what this man is going to use as leverage when that happens?

I feel bad for your grandson, and you. This hurts you, I know. Make sure he knows his friend is hurting too. I dare say....if this man is gone again....let them talk. Maybe this other child will let him know how he feels about this thing that is happening to him also.

Sad thing that predjudice is still around. But it is. This man is a moron and ill equipped to be a parent, in this time.

This man should be in a time-out right smack dab in the middle of an all black church for life. If he doesn't find redemption there...then he is better off on another planet.

flowerforyou flowerforyou :heart: smooched
Kat


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Thu 06/05/08 12:08 PM

disgusting and unbelievable.

I believe I would have gone over there and given that man a huge piece of my mind. How rude and what a bigot he is! Shame shame on him. I would run him and his wife out of the neighborhood and make it known to all what a bigot he is.

His wife is a whimp pure and simple and is probably abused by this jerk.

Geeeze.......

Jeannie

scttrbrain's photo
Thu 06/05/08 12:34 PM
I don't agree with Jeannie. This kind of behavior would just reinforce his bigotry.

Kat

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Thu 06/05/08 12:51 PM
Edited by tribo on Thu 06/05/08 12:53 PM

my grand son was playing with a lil boy from accross the street where i live at they play together quiet often until yesterday when my grand son came in and asked me the question of ehy people say i am a n---- and i said who said that he said my friend dad doesnt want me to come back over and play with him cause i am black didnt make no sense to me so i went over and asked him what his problem and he said that if his son kept playing with my grand son other people wouldnt play with him he would he be considered a lover of (n) so my grand son asked me thi quetion why cant i be friends with jason anymore his mom appoligised for her hussband but she said it would be in thr best interest if he just sayed away noway explode so on that note i wonder why all this time they played together and nothing was said i forgot that her husband was gone for 6months and when came back home all of that changed i even watched her kids while she was at work so now the lil boy wont even must say hello to my grand son they were the cutiest friends together well i guess taught lesson better than a bought one brokenheart


UNFORTUNATELY - PREJUDICE DOES NOT START LIKE SOME AUTOMATIC PRE DETERMINED TIMED LIGHT COMES ON - IT IS A "TAUGHT BEHAVIOR" NO MORE NO LESS. PREDUDICE RACIAL HATRED, AND ALL LIKE THINGS ARE GOING TO BE WITH US AS LONG AS MAN EXSIST. EVEN IF ONLY ONE COLOR OR RACE RULED IT WOULD CHANGE NOTHING - AS WE PLAINLY SEE WHEN WARS BREAK OUT BETWEEN THE SAME COLOR OR ETHNICITY WITH NO OTHER INFLUENCES -

THE IRISH/ENGLISH/CATHOLIC/PROTESTANT WARS ARE A GOOD EXAMPLE - AS LONG AS MAN THINKS HIMSELF A BETTER TYPE/COLOR/MORE INTELLIGENT/MORE WORTHY OF THE NEXT - THERE IS NO HOPE OF WORLD PEACE OR UNDERSTANDING. SORRY FOR YOUR SON FOR HAVING TO BE INTRUDUCED INTO THE REALITY OF THIS - "MANS SELFISH CENTER OF BEING." NO ONE DESERVES IT.

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Thu 06/05/08 12:52 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Thu 06/05/08 12:54 PM

I don't agree with Jeannie. This kind of behavior would just reinforce his bigotry.

Kat


If you make it known to the neighborhood what a bigot he is, they, the neighborhood.. should run him out of there. If they support him, well, then you know what kind of neighborhood you are living in don't you?

People play nice and pretend to be nice and hide their bigotry and abusive nature behind their smiles. It is time for the tower to come down and the truth be revealed. See and show them for what they are.

Jeannoe

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Thu 06/05/08 01:07 PM


my grand son was playing with a lil boy from accross the street where i live at they play together quiet often until yesterday when my grand son came in and asked me the question of ehy people say i am a n---- and i said who said that he said my friend dad doesnt want me to come back over and play with him cause i am black didnt make no sense to me so i went over and asked him what his problem and he said that if his son kept playing with my grand son other people wouldnt play with him he would he be considered a lover of (n) so my grand son asked me thi quetion why cant i be friends with jason anymore his mom appoligised for her hussband but she said it would be in thr best interest if he just sayed away noway explode so on that note i wonder why all this time they played together and nothing was said i forgot that her husband was gone for 6months and when came back home all of that changed i even watched her kids while she was at work so now the lil boy wont even must say hello to my grand son they were the cutiest friends together well i guess taught lesson better than a bought one brokenheart


UNFORTUNATELY - PREJUDICE DOES NOT START LIKE SOME AUTOMATIC PRE DETERMINED TIMED LIGHT COMES ON - IT IS A "TAUGHT BEHAVIOR" NO MORE NO LESS. PREDUDICE RACIAL HATRED, AND ALL LIKE THINGS ARE GOING TO BE WITH US AS LONG AS MAN EXSIST. EVEN IF ONLY ONE COLOR OR RACE RULED IT WOULD CHANGE NOTHING - AS WE PLAINLY SEE WHEN WARS BREAK OUT BETWEEN THE SAME COLOR OR ETHNICITY WITH NO OTHER INFLUENCES -

THE IRISH/ENGLISH/CATHOLIC/PROTESTANT WARS ARE A GOOD EXAMPLE - AS LONG AS MAN THINKS HIMSELF A BETTER TYPE/COLOR/MORE INTELLIGENT/MORE WORTHY OF THE NEXT - THERE IS NO HOPE OF WORLD PEACE OR UNDERSTANDING. SORRY FOR YOUR SON FOR HAVING TO BE INTRUDUCED INTO THE REALITY OF THIS - "MANS SELFISH CENTER OF BEING." NO ONE DESERVES IT.
you know at 6 yrs old who sees color i n=know ignorance has no color i know as long as ee are in this world we will be judge on who what we are someof us will whether we are to fat to skinny to tall to short black white hispanic,jew catholic,asian we all bleed the same color no difference i just hate he seen it this way but i guess this had to happen for him to be introduce into this world right

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Thu 06/05/08 01:09 PM
im sorry to hear that. my neice is mixed race, if anyone messed with her, there would be hell :angry: :angry: explode explode

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Thu 06/05/08 02:38 PM



my grand son was playing with a lil boy from accross the street where i live at they play together quiet often until yesterday when my grand son came in and asked me the question of ehy people say i am a n---- and i said who said that he said my friend dad doesnt want me to come back over and play with him cause i am black didnt make no sense to me so i went over and asked him what his problem and he said that if his son kept playing with my grand son other people wouldnt play with him he would he be considered a lover of (n) so my grand son asked me thi quetion why cant i be friends with jason anymore his mom appoligised for her hussband but she said it would be in thr best interest if he just sayed away noway explode so on that note i wonder why all this time they played together and nothing was said i forgot that her husband was gone for 6months and when came back home all of that changed i even watched her kids while she was at work so now the lil boy wont even must say hello to my grand son they were the cutiest friends together well i guess taught lesson better than a bought one brokenheart


UNFORTUNATELY - PREJUDICE DOES NOT START LIKE SOME AUTOMATIC PRE DETERMINED TIMED LIGHT COMES ON - IT IS A "TAUGHT BEHAVIOR" NO MORE NO LESS. PREDUDICE RACIAL HATRED, AND ALL LIKE THINGS ARE GOING TO BE WITH US AS LONG AS MAN EXSIST. EVEN IF ONLY ONE COLOR OR RACE RULED IT WOULD CHANGE NOTHING - AS WE PLAINLY SEE WHEN WARS BREAK OUT BETWEEN THE SAME COLOR OR ETHNICITY WITH NO OTHER INFLUENCES -

THE IRISH/ENGLISH/CATHOLIC/PROTESTANT WARS ARE A GOOD EXAMPLE - AS LONG AS MAN THINKS HIMSELF A BETTER TYPE/COLOR/MORE INTELLIGENT/MORE WORTHY OF THE NEXT - THERE IS NO HOPE OF WORLD PEACE OR UNDERSTANDING. SORRY FOR YOUR SON FOR HAVING TO BE INTRUDUCED INTO THE REALITY OF THIS - "MANS SELFISH CENTER OF BEING." NO ONE DESERVES IT.
you know at 6 yrs old who sees color i n=know ignorance has no color i know as long as ee are in this world we will be judge on who what we are someof us will whether we are to fat to skinny to tall to short black white hispanic,jew catholic,asian we all bleed the same color no difference i just hate he seen it this way but i guess this had to happen for him to be introduce into this world right


PLEASE DONT TAKE ME WRONG - I "DETEST" ALL OF WHAT I KNOW OR HAVE STATED- I WOULD GIVE MOST ANYTHING RO SEE IT NOT BE THIS WAY - BUT I AM ALSO KEENLY AWARE OF WHO AND WHAT MAN IS AT HIS CORE "SELFISH" AND THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE - SO THE THINGS MAN DOES ON A MORAL LEVEL WILL NOT CHANGE EITHER. PEOPLE TALK OF CHANGE BUT AT MOST IT IS TEMPORARY, NOT LASTING MORAL CHANGE OR BEHAVIOR. EVEN JESUS WAS PREJUDICE TOWARDS THE PHARAHSEE'S AND SCRIBES OF HIS DAY. NO ONES PERFECT NOR CAN BE WHILE WEARING THIS FLESH.

BonnyMiss's photo
Fri 06/06/08 03:31 AM
Rainbow Children

Moral degregation, humiliation on parade
Just because I chose to be brave
What is the crime I hear you ask
Why,I ripped the fibers of morals past
Bringing together different races
"I" wanted my children to have different faces
See, I did my bit for the melting pot
I felt I needed to stop the rot
Are they not living breathing human beings?
Are they not God's children we are seeing?
Tell any mother who has little ones
There is not a place where they belong
She will tell you from her heart
Her children from her you cannot part
So, if you think my children are a disgrace
Then maybe you are the one who's out of place!

Bonny flowerforyou

tribo's photo
Fri 06/06/08 11:57 AM

Rainbow Children

Moral degregation, humiliation on parade
Just because I chose to be brave
What is the crime I hear you ask
Why,I ripped the fibers of morals past
Bringing together different races
"I" wanted my children to have different faces
See, I did my bit for the melting pot
I felt I needed to stop the rot
Are they not living breathing human beings?
Are they not God's children we are seeing?
Tell any mother who has little ones
There is not a place where they belong
She will tell you from her heart
Her children from her you cannot part
So, if you think my children are a disgrace
Then maybe you are the one who's out of place!

Bonny flowerforyou



excellent - to bad no one listensflowerforyou

scttrbrain's photo
Fri 06/06/08 12:40 PM
No one?? I listen. I care.

Katflowerforyou
That was beautiful bonnieMiss

BonnyMiss's photo
Fri 06/06/08 12:40 PM


Rainbow Children

Moral degregation, humiliation on parade
Just because I chose to be brave
What is the crime I hear you ask
Why,I ripped the fibers of morals past
Bringing together different races
"I" wanted my children to have different faces
See, I did my bit for the melting pot
I felt I needed to stop the rot
Are they not living breathing human beings?
Are they not God's children we are seeing?
Tell any mother who has little ones
There is not a place where they belong
She will tell you from her heart
Her children from her you cannot part
So, if you think my children are a disgrace
Then maybe you are the one who's out of place!

Bonny flowerforyou



excellent - to bad no one listensflowerforyou


It is indeed a shame, think of the enriching experiences we all could share when we integrate and embrace each others' cultures

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Fri 06/06/08 12:44 PM
Its sad, but the Parent are the ones that put it in the Kids Head.
When i was in th 5th grade, a Kid called me the N word. I asked him why he said it. He told me his Grandfather told him WE, like being call thathuh

tribo's photo
Fri 06/06/08 01:18 PM
Edited by tribo on Fri 06/06/08 01:20 PM
from the "book of truth's" (c) 1996 cl

19) Racial predudice or bigotry is stupid and childish. And those who pracrice or condone it immature and foolish in their reasoning and common sense. It may be a natural thing to hate someone who has harmed or damaged you or your loved one's, but it is not a reason for racial hatred! I grew up in a small town in ohio, everyone at that time who lived there was white anglo saxon. And everyone who injured me while i lived there - be it verbally, physically, or spiritually, was white.
If i had a reason to be predjudice, bigoted, or hateful as a young man, then i would have hated "white" people for sure. But in reality it was only a small fraction of people there in my home town that injured me in one way or another. And honestly i did at that time hate those individuals who had hurt me without cause - but not all the other's, not everyone else!

To hate all of a kind because of the actions of one or some would be as stupid as hating all food because you had eaten a few or more terrible tasting meals - Both thing's will lead to nothing but starvation and death - spiritually, emotionally, and physically."

may god grant us wisdom!!

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Fri 06/06/08 01:25 PM
I am shocked and dismayed that there are people in this world that still think like that. Parents that teach their children racial prejudice are a cancer in our society. Too bad they can't be locked up for it!embarassed frown :angry: mad

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