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Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing....  Just seems weird.   doesn't seem hard to me .. guys aren't good on the "exit" ... you met, he may not have 'felt anything' and he's on his way .. the Saturday? a guys' way of leaving before he leaves .. make sense? you may be right Fade, but its only been one day....this is what happens when there is no communication....then the speculation begins..... Did you try to contact him?....i'd still give it more time... I did blue, I did. But what I don't understand is, If he was on his way out, why make plans for Saturday once he was already gone? When he left it was up in the air when we would meet again. He called me a few hours later and let me know he would be able to come out on Saturday.... soo it's strange... It didn't seem like someone lookin for a way out. 
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Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing.... Just seems weird. doesn't seem hard to me .. guys aren't good on the "exit" ... you met, he may not have 'felt anything' and he's on his way .. the Saturday? a guys' way of leaving before he leaves .. make sense? you may be right Fade, but its only been one day....this is what happens when there is no communication....then the speculation begins..... Did you try to contact him?....i'd still give it more time... I did blue, I did. But what I don't understand is, If he was on his way out, why make plans for Saturday once he was already gone? When he left it was up in the air when we would meet again. He called me a few hours later and let me know he would be able to come out on Saturday.... soo it's strange... It didn't seem like someone lookin for a way out. yeah, it doesn't seem to look that way...is he supposed to see you this Saturday?...if so there is still more time... |
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i suppose you are right...i guess i'm being too needy
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Edited by
crushedagn
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Wed 06/04/08 06:50 PM
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I have been through the same thing. Maybe he got caught up in something work or other responsibilities. What did you talk about? I am not an expert by any stretch of the means. I met this guy online once and we hit it off. We met went to a movie and had a really nice time. After that I didn't hear from him either. Then a few months went by and he IMs me. I asked what happened and he said that I scared him. He thought I could be the one for him. Long story short we dated a couple more times and then nothing so go figure. Some guys just don't know what they want or know what they want and don't know what to do after they have it. Amen sista! 
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Maybe he's away from his phone right now. All day, from 12noon until 7pm? I dunno..... Hmm maybe I'm a bit too trusting? I guess thats why I have been hurt so many times in the past... |
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This happened to me...we met and he kept texting me and calling me and then all of a sudden NOTHING!! Talk about leaving me all confused and wanting to know what was going on. Then all of a sudden he would send me a text and say something like..sorry I didn't get ahold of you sooner, I will call you later!
If he is playing this game already, trust me...get rid of him now. You don't want to play that waiting game plus you don't want to keep guessing what he is thinking. I call these kind of people, "mind bogglers." They really are not worth your time! |
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This happened to me...we met and he kept texting me and calling me and then all of a sudden NOTHING!! Talk about leaving me all confused and wanting to know what was going on. Then all of a sudden he would send me a text and say something like..sorry I didn't get ahold of you sooner, I will call you later! If he is playing this game already, trust me...get rid of him now. You don't want to play that waiting game plus you don't want to keep guessing what he is thinking. I call these kind of people, "mind bogglers." They really are not worth your time! thank you. I will. I just hope nothing bad happened to him. |
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Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing.... Just seems weird. Could he have met with a mishap,an accident perhaps? And has no way of getting hold of you and seeing that you have only just met it is unlikely that he would have told anyone about you(yet) and to let you know should something happen to him..............JMHO. |
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Ok so tell me what you think... I'm talking to this guy from the site for about a month(give or take a week) before he sees my pic. He likes my personality first. Then he sees my pic and he REALLY likes me even more, wants to talk on the phone, even drives 2 hrs to meet me before work one morning and hangs around until I go to lunch. We have a great time, he talks, texts me the rest of the day, he wants to see me on Saturday...... but................ I havent heard a PEEP all day today... Not a text response...not a return call.....nothing.... Just seems weird. doesn't seem hard to me .. guys aren't good on the "exit" ... you met, he may not have 'felt anything' and he's on his way .. the Saturday? a guys' way of leaving before he leaves .. make sense? you may be right Fade, but its only been one day....this is what happens when there is no communication....then the speculation begins..... Did you try to contact him?....i'd still give it more time... Speculation always begins ... especially with women. We are creatures of habit. We like to know the answer. There is nothing in the world a guy can do that bothers us more ... than going silent.  And funny enough, we always think of all the 'accident' or 'illness' stuff ... why? so we can give ourselves a good reason why he hasn't contacted us. Now tell me .. how often has someone who went silent actually met up with misfortune? Probably 1% chance. But we'll hold on to it cuz it gives us hope. Good luck hon.  but I bet he's fine and rethinking. Either way, can't do anything about it. Just let time fill your space for ya.
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