I find the problems with most marriages or relationships are that the one partner was always trying to tell the other partner what they "should be."

Ever hear of just accepting them for who they are? Just find someone with similar standards as yours and look for what you do agree on instead of picking them apart piece by piece or trying to remake them into a male version of you, or into what your idea of what a Christian should be.

If I were a man, even a Christian man, I would pass on that kind of attitude. You seem like a high maintenance woman who would be hard to please. No, impossible to please.

I had a husband like that. It don't work.

JB