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Edited by
Mike91ZX
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Wed 06/04/08 11:57 AM
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What would you do if you were in a relationship and every single thing you were told comes under question? I think I might be in one of those. My girlfriend is doing so many shady as hell things. She tells me she will call back after a few hours, than 2 days later calls and says she didn't have my number to call because she wasn't at home. Last time she wasn't at home she had my number and called, seems a little strange. Every time she calls me from out of her house it's always an "Anonymous Number" that comes up.
These people (they say they're not her) IM me on her AIM account and ask all these strange questions, than they all seem to have the same issues her account does (frequent disconnection b/c she has bad internet, apparently they all do too). Than someone tells me today she's in the hospital (she told me she has cystic fibrosis, so I often get worried when I hear things like that) and my IM is the only contact info she left (that's just strange). Than when I ask what hospital she's at, the "person" tells me she doesn't know, than tells me "the doc says she's okay to call you" but still won't tell me the name. Many things like this including crap with her ex-husband are leading me to believe she's acting shady as hell. |
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ummm hit the eject button dude!!!!
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go with your gut and investigate. i did and found my ex cheating on me right under my nose. not saying she is cheating, but go with your gut.
best of luck to you! |
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Is her name Cybil?
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it sounds like your stuck in a bad movie...ok honestly I guess I am a little confused as to the point of this post..
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 I'd say something is up!!
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What would you do if you were in a relationship and every single thing you were told comes under question? I think I might be in one of those. My girlfriend is doing so many shady as hell things. She tells me she will call back after a few hours, than 2 days later calls and says she didn't have my number to call because she wasn't at home. Last time she wasn't at home she had my number and called, seems a little strange. Every time she calls me from out of her house it's always an "Anonymous Number" that comes up. These people (they say they're not her) IM me on her AIM account and ask all these strange questions, than they all seem to have the same issues her account does (frequent disconnection b/c she has bad internet, apparently they all do too). Than someone tells me today she's in the hospital (she told me she has cystic fibrosis, so I often get worried when I hear things like that) and my IM is the only contact info she left (that's just strange). Than when I ask what hospital she's at, the "person" tells me she doesn't know, than tells me "the doc says she's okay to call you" but still won't tell me the name. Many things like this including crap with her ex-husband are leading me to believe she's acting shady as hell. (((((((((( NEXT ))))))))) |
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I'd say something is up!! Like your hair. 
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it sounds like your stuck in a bad movie...ok honestly I guess I am a little confused as to the point of this post.. The point is to find what other people would do in a situation like this. |
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the question is what are you going to do in this situation...
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She obviously has a mental problem and is not taking her medication.
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ok here is what I would do ... she is obviously still makin some contact with you so she must have you on some kind of rotation with a few other guys.. just sit back and wait until its your turn do your thing and then sit back and wait until your turn comes around again
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the question is what are you going to do in this situation... I don't know. I want to believe what she says, I try and make what she says make sense to me, though that's probably just me being an idiot in denial. This would be the 2nd girl in a row to cheat on me and lie right to my face, not exactly a good streak. |
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why waste your time and hers?
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ok here is what I would do ... she is obviously still makin some contact with you so she must have you on some kind of rotation with a few other guys.. just sit back and wait until its your turn do your thing and then sit back and wait until your turn comes around again I aint that kind of guy, I'm looking for an honest real relationship and figured that's what I had, but apparently I was wrong. |
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Generally when people seek advice, it is to verify what they already suspect they should do... Trust should never be an issue.
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the question is what are you going to do in this situation... I don't know. I want to believe what she says, I try and make what she says make sense to me, though that's probably just me being an idiot in denial. This would be the 2nd girl in a row to cheat on me and lie right to my face, not exactly a good streak. dude find better girls. i know the pain, but set your standards higher and then compromise if nessessary. get rid of her and focus on yourself. what can you do to make yourself better? |
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Mike it does sound pretty fishy. You need to decide if you want to investigate this or if you just want to get out before you get hurt. Relationships should be based on honesty and you are not getting that from her.
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I was married to a pathological liar, and they make no sense to anyone but themselves and do it to get what they want regardless of how it effects those with whom they have a relationship. WALK AWAY. Instincts and intuition are your right and left feet.
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I'm straight on with what jisytg14 stated...hit the eject button. If it was me she was doin this way, I'd be outta there and looking for a new lady. Don't waste any time waiting for her.
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