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Topic: Do you find it easy to forgive?
Topsykretts Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 4807	Wed 06/04/08 05:37 AM
Of course, if the person who was nasty to you apologizes, then it's easier to forgive them. But, if they never say sorry for treating you really cruelly, then what?

DREAMZ Joined Sat 05/31/08 Posts: 1775	Wed 06/04/08 05:38 AM
Of course, if the person who was nasty to you apologizes, then it's easier to forgive them. But, if they never say sorry for treating you really cruelly, then what? good morning sexy manila!

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Wed 06/04/08 05:38 AM
yes i would..cause i wouldnt want to hold on the the resentment..would only hurt me, not the other person..sucks holding resentments

Topsykretts Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 4807	Wed 06/04/08 05:39 AM Edited by Topsykretts on Wed 06/04/08 05:41 AM
Of course, if the person who was nasty to you apologizes, then it's easier to forgive them. But, if they never say sorry for treating you really cruelly, then what? good morning sexy manila! Hallo there! a good morning to you and to you too Sexy

atleedagod Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 738	Wed 06/04/08 05:39 AM
actually i tend to hold grudges =/ not one of my prouder traits but there it is

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 06/04/08 05:48 AM
I find it very easy to forgive, but I don't always forget.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Wed 06/04/08 05:55 AM
I find it very easy to forgive, but I don't always forget. What she said.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Wed 06/04/08 05:55 AM
Of course, if the person who was nasty to you apologizes, then it's easier to forgive them. But, if they never say sorry for treating you really cruelly, then what? You are talking about my ex-husband!! And, I had to forgive in order to move on, whether he asked for it or not!! But, I shall never forget!!

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Wed 06/04/08 05:56 AM
I say shoot em

tearsofblood666 Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 7066	Wed 06/04/08 05:57 AM
No I never forgive. I kick their butt

deeanne Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 133	Wed 06/04/08 06:00 AM
life's to short , get on with your own life!! move on

Marley Joined Mon 10/02/06 Posts: 3922	Wed 06/04/08 06:01 AM
Yeah. Forgive 'em the way Tony Soprano would.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 06/04/08 06:16 AM
I only have one person in my life that I haven't forgiven. I've been in therapy for almost a year and a half for it and every time I get close to that point, the horrific memories take over and I feel like I'm right back where I started.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Wed 06/04/08 06:31 AM
I only have one person in my life that I haven't forgiven. I've been in therapy for almost a year and a half for it and every time I get close to that point, the horrific memories take over and I feel like I'm right back where I started. Aw, sweetie! That is sad. Someday you will rise above the awful things that were done to you. Whatever it is, I am sorry that it had to happen to you.

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 06/04/08 06:35 AM
I only have one person in my life that I haven't forgiven. I've been in therapy for almost a year and a half for it and every time I get close to that point, the horrific memories take over and I feel like I'm right back where I started. Aw, sweetie! That is sad. Someday you will rise above the awful things that were done to you. Whatever it is, I am sorry that it had to happen to you. Thank you (((Hiker))) And hopefully, by the Grace of God, it will happen one day soon.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 06/04/08 06:37 AM
I only have one person in my life that I haven't forgiven. I've been in therapy for almost a year and a half for it and every time I get close to that point, the horrific memories take over and I feel like I'm right back where I started. Aw, sweetie! That is sad. Someday you will rise above the awful things that were done to you. Whatever it is, I am sorry that it had to happen to you. Thank you (((Hiker))) And hopefully, by the Grace of God, it will happen one day soon. Ms. Carmen, having had one of the worst experiences that can happen to a woman, I can tell you, it's not easy but it can and does get better. You are doing all the right things and the nightmares will fade and eventually, you may be able to draw strength from your experience. Keep holding on, you will get there

Topsykretts Joined Wed 05/14/08 Posts: 4807	Wed 06/04/08 06:37 AM


Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Wed 06/04/08 06:38 AM
the person I( find hardest to forgive is ME when I do something stupid that I know is wrong!!

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Wed 06/04/08 06:41 AM
I only have one person in my life that I haven't forgiven. I've been in therapy for almost a year and a half for it and every time I get close to that point, the horrific memories take over and I feel like I'm right back where I started. Aw, sweetie! That is sad. Someday you will rise above the awful things that were done to you. Whatever it is, I am sorry that it had to happen to you. Thank you (((Hiker))) And hopefully, by the Grace of God, it will happen one day soon. Ms. Carmen, having had one of the worst experiences that can happen to a woman, I can tell you, it's not easy but it can and does get better. You are doing all the right things and the nightmares will fade and eventually, you may be able to draw strength from your experience. Keep holding on, you will get there Thank you ((((SuzinVA))))

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 06/04/08 06:41 AM
I forgive ppl their bad days easily, but if the attitude were constant, unprovoked, and with out a real cause, I might have trouble coming to terms with them and hold some contempt for them. It's rarely happened...but has.