ok im 24 and thhe guy i been seeing is 44 my dad is very mad about it that he stop talking to me and im staying with him and he keeps saying old men beat their wives which is untrue cause he's a old man i don't love the guy i was just wondering would you end the relationship if your father had a problem with it ?

Nope!

just a slim observation here.....but I think you answered your own question without your Dad even being involved. First of all you don't love the guy (even if he is old).....really sweetie, age is nothing but a number!!!!!

But just by the "tone" of your writing this I could tell that you are wanting to end the relationship anyway, regardless of your Dad.

Nope...he will come around eventually!!!

we only known each other for a couple weeks so thats the reason i don't love him but i like him

If you have to ask, you are too young for the 44 year old man. There's just SOMETHING Ann Landers-ish about this.
If older men in general beat their women, there wouldn't be any older men, now, would there???
Surely you wouldn't take to heart such a broad prejudicial statement like that without putting too much power in your Dad's opinion, as that would mean you are not thinking for yourself yet, still hanging on to Daddy's belt.
Not trying to be harsh, but please think about it. We should all strive to listen for input from our loved ones, but there's a point where we need to be able to discern.... Garbage in, garbage out.
Best wishes to you!!

Age does matter, Do The Math,!!!!!!!!!!

i had sex with this man it wasn't the best and it didn't last long but it was something

Ummm read your posts dear. You answer your own questions.

And as to sex not lasting long ........... date younger. All your concerns will be nil.

i never judge a man by sex if i did i would have went to woman a long time ago

Your slant on this whole thing is vexing me.

im just sayin is sex not all that but im willinggg to stay with this man

your 24, he's 44....he's near the age where you'll have to make reservations for the bedroom follies based on a little blue pill

he using the blue pill but the idea of having a heart attack and dying on top of me or on my back scares me

You don't love him, but you've slept with him, but you hardly know him to love him, and the sex was blah, you are worried about heart attacks and you worry what your Dad's opinion is based on a broad statement. Hello?! Anyone? Is this one of those joke posts?

I don't think there's a real issue with age difference for me, IF you love them! To have sex with someone with no real emotional attachment would not be cool with me at any age, but I don't have to have sex with your 44 year old toy, so it's not for me to say. JMO

Who's more important to you?
Is it really worth what it's (obviously) doing to your dad ?

is your father seeing him? no. So why does he get a say?