OH KING you are bad!! HMMM I don't think I could do that...but you know
after 30 years of marriage, who the hell knows what I could do :)

during the last couple months of my last relationship i honestly didn't
know if some dumbass was gonna try to stab me in my sleep. i didn't lose
any sleep over it lol but she was not right but you know what, every
time i said i was gonna leave she would start crying(no alligator tears
either)and would want me to stay. can someone sane explain that to me
because i don't get it.

not at all sweety i am not yet devoriced but i have ben seperated for 4
years now and i have 2 kids but i finaly got back out there. you know he
is doing it and if you know your not getting back together then dont
feel bad

I always say this..If you really know its over: don't look back just
move forward!! King if you were afraid someone was going to stab your
arse...sleep with one eye open sunshine :)

I think that as long as there is no sign of reconciliation and you are
feeling ok, then go for it. I think it could help boost self esteem.
Everyone wants to be happy, do what makes you happy. Think about
yourself instead of everyone else and what they think.

i agree, when it's over get out. and as far as the one eye open thing
goes, i refuse to give some punk powere because they don't have the guts
to do it to my face. i always say, i'll never worry bout some bitch that
can't approach me like a man when they have a problem because they are
so much of a pussy that they have to gang up on me or jump me from
behind. we'll go into realizing what that person is like and they will
know that i don't repect them for that and that i think they are a bitch
but i won't lose a seconds sleep over it.

I got 2 words about it being bad ShagnaC...HELL NO...get out there,
enjoy yourself and yer freedom, who cares if the divorce isn't finalized
yet?. As far as you're concerned, it's a done deal and that's all that
matters

i would not sit around being lonely, if you want to move on do it.