Topic: Broke My Heart
tkusant's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:47 AM
Says she can't be in a long distance relationship with me anymore because she is going back to ex boyfriend who has cheated on her at least 3 times that we know of. She has told me she loves me. What? Don't think. I have no luck with women, no luck at all.

happyhippie's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:48 AM
flowerforyou love her for the person she is not if you two can be together...let her go...flowerforyou

tkusant's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:49 AM
ok

STARTRAVELER's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:49 AM
the stories i could tell ya ! chin up and move on at least you found out what kind of inner strength she had before it was too late ! good luck buddy

tanyaann's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:50 AM
well, it just means that there is someone else out there for you, sorry that you hurt, but it will just mean better things for you! good luck in your search!

No1sLove's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:51 AM
I think some ppl say...I love you

when they really mean...I want to love you but am too scared to let the past go and take a chance on life.

tkusant's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:52 AM
I think so too No1slove

Tommo's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:54 AM
I am not too sure if most people really know what love means

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:55 AM

Says she can't be in a long distance relationship with me anymore because she is going back to ex boyfriend who has cheated on her at least 3 times that we know of. She has told me she loves me. What? Don't think. I have no luck with women, no luck at all.



You know my ex and I had similiar problems but not the 3x's cheating. I had gotten to know someone on here that was in NY. I thought I really cared until the BF came back into my life. I had to say goodbye to the one I'd never met cuz I realized where my heart was ..

But it wasn't intentional. I'm sure it wasnt' for your girl either. I'm sorry flowerforyou

But don't turn stalkerish on her. My NYC guy did that to me. It's really turned me off and wigged me out. mad :cry: mad

susanswt1's photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:55 AM
That is messed up! How far away are you? I know for myself 3 hours is a long distance

no photo
Sat 05/31/08 06:56 AM
sounds to me like she likes being used as a door mat. and until she changes not a damn thing you can do, im sorry to hear that

tkusant's photo
Sat 05/31/08 07:00 AM


Says she can't be in a long distance relationship with me anymore because she is going back to ex boyfriend who has cheated on her at least 3 times that we know of. She has told me she loves me. What? Don't think. I have no luck with women, no luck at all.



You know my ex and I had similiar problems but not the 3x's cheating. I had gotten to know someone on here that was in NY. I thought I really cared until the BF came back into my life. I had to say goodbye to the one I'd never met cuz I realized where my heart was ..

But it wasn't intentional. I'm sure it wasnt' for your girl either. I'm sorry flowerforyou

But don't turn stalkerish on her. My NYC guy did that to me. It's really turned me off and wigged me out. mad :cry: mad



Not going to stalk thats for sure.

no photo
Sat 05/31/08 07:00 AM
Wow!! It will be her loss, too. I had an abusive 2nd marriage and he wanted to get back together after some dust settled. I considered it, but after all we'd been through, I chose to move forward.
If her ex cheated like that, he'll do it again. But, if she tries to run to you, you already know she's bound to run back. Please, if you can, be supportive, but don't let her back into your heart as you will be the road, she the tire!
Live and learn and prosper. flowerforyou

tkusant's photo
Sat 05/31/08 07:01 AM
I am in Ft. Lauderdale, fl, she is in Wilmington, NC. Pretty far but it was working. We always saw each other anyway. I going back and forth all the time. just weird, very weird. Started talking about moving her down here. Crazy.

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 05/31/08 07:12 AM
shake my bones,,,,,shake my bones,,,,,,,theres an old saying,,,,,onece a cow jumps th fence,,,,,,,,,then th second time for is more easier,,,,,,,,,so let her go,,,,,,,an don't look back,,,,,,,,even on here,,,they are a lot of wonderful women,,,,,,,,just get in th forums an meet all of them,,,,,i'm sure you can find a good woman here,,,,,,,,now thats my .dimes worth for today

no photo
Sat 05/31/08 07:12 AM
Edited by toogoodtobetrue on Sat 05/31/08 07:14 AM
The thing about the word Love it is used freely and what love means to you it means different things to other people. The word love is something that shouldn't be taken lightly.

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 05/31/08 08:21 AM

I am in Ft. Lauderdale, fl, she is in Wilmington, NC. Pretty far but it was working. We always saw each other anyway. I going back and forth all the time. just weird, very weird. Started talking about moving her down here. Crazy.



Oh didn't realize you had met in person. My brooklyn boy and I never had

tkusant's photo
Sat 05/31/08 09:53 AM
I went to high school with this girl!!!