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Topic: crazy nutty ex's
poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Fri 05/30/08 01:12 PM
wow i usually end relationships after 3 weeks before that stuff kicks in i would never stay with a man who would showed a hint of abuse even if it was an insult i can see that coming from a mile away thats not a relationship thats an ownership i don't understand what forces people to stay in them just leave! God It is NOT that easy..Unless you have been there..and experinced it..you have NO idea what it's like... exactlly my point people well tell me leave him but its not that easy once u are in the situation really is not

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Fri 05/30/08 01:13 PM
wow i usually end relationships after 3 weeks before that stuff kicks in i would never stay with a man who even showed a hint of abuse even if it was an insult i can see that coming from a mile away thats not a relationship thats an ownership i don't understand what forces people to stay in them just leave! God

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Fri 05/30/08 01:13 PM
Thats understandable depends who you are, i can untie feelings fast so itäs easy for me

MYheartACHES4u Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 3076	Fri 05/30/08 01:14 PM
wow i usually end relationships after 3 weeks before that stuff kicks in i would never stay with a man who would showed a hint of abuse even if it was an insult i can see that coming from a mile away thats not a relationship thats an ownership i don't understand what forces people to stay in them just leave! God It is NOT that easy..Unless you have been there..and experinced it..you have NO idea what it's like... fine but why do most women that are in a good relationship find it so easy to leave...........

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Fri 05/30/08 01:14 PM
luckily its been 5 months ever since we heard of each other....ahahha i cahnged my number for good.........i had too ill cry al the time...........he wouldnt leave me alone at all i felt like as soon as i was a bit happy oohh htere he goes agia ntime too bug me thank god he is so far and doen t know my number

heartbrokenbaby Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 8211	Fri 05/30/08 01:14 PM
wow i usually end relationships after 3 weeks before that stuff kicks in i would never stay with a man who would showed a hint of abuse even if it was an insult i can see that coming from a mile away thats not a relationship thats an ownership i don't understand what forces people to stay in them just leave! God It is NOT that easy..Unless you have been there..and experinced it..you have NO idea what it's like... exactlly my point people well tell me leave him but its not that easy once u are in the situation really is not they have you trped sometimes to were you think you love them but there hurting you

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Fri 05/30/08 01:15 PM
I can say that everyone here has made me actually like my ex. Most of our friends consider her nuts for leaving me for a 60 year old motorcylce riding guy, but compared to most of your ex's she's an angel.

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Fri 05/30/08 01:15 PM
wow i usually end relationships after 3 weeks before that stuff kicks in i would never stay with a man who would showed a hint of abuse even if it was an insult i can see that coming from a mile away thats not a relationship thats an ownership i don't understand what forces people to stay in them just leave! God It is NOT that easy..Unless you have been there..and experinced it..you have NO idea what it's like... fine but why do most women that are in a good relationship find it so easy to leave........... i dont know same too guys.......... they are not s oinnocent

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Fri 05/30/08 01:16 PM
wow i usually end relationships after 3 weeks before that stuff kicks in i would never stay with a man who would showed a hint of abuse even if it was an insult i can see that coming from a mile away thats not a relationship thats an ownership i don't understand what forces people to stay in them just leave! God It is NOT that easy..Unless you have been there..and experinced it..you have NO idea what it's like... fine but why do most women that are in a good relationship find it so easy to leave........... I wish I had an answer for that love...I'm glad that I don't fit in the "most" women catagory ....I would love to be in a healthy loving relationship that lasted forever

kendrab90 Joined Tue 04/15/08 Posts: 1917	Fri 05/30/08 01:16 PM
oh believe me i know what it feels like hun, many do, just tell yourself you deserve better no one deserves punishment for trying to love someone makes no sense

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Fri 05/30/08 01:16 PM
my ex would come home drunk, trash the house then pass out, when I told him about he called me a liar, so I didn't clean up the messes anymore then he finally got it,when he started hitting me instead of throwing or messing things up, I left him, he just didn't care which is why he is my ex. That sounds like my ex, only he wouldn't stop hitting me. and he called me fat and ugly eventhough he knew I had borderline. I asked him to take me to the hospital once because I really didn't want to hurt myself and he threw a knife at my feet and said, go ahead ***** do it. now that sounds liek a guy i dated we were just dating casual nothing serious he would call me beautiful perfetct one day the next hell be like u are fat ugly usless b++++ ill be like shut up leave me along hell be like ulll never be haoppy as long as i live .look at me now iam single but far far from him......i had to cahgne phone number......becasue of him.............even after we had stop seeing each otehr he was sopossly engaged he kept calling my phone private caling me slut and all this sutff just becasue i didnt answer phoen...........