Women attracted to all the pretty boy who treat them badly..Why has nice
became such a bad thing...Whatever happened to poetry courting and true
love..How did everyone get so jaded..Finally why do really beautiful
women even need sight like these.. You know who you are ..If you are
beautiful you can pick and choose your men..WE are NOT that lucky being
guys ..UNless of course you are a chippendale dancer type..WILL

Ur right Will, what happened. I see so many ppl out there that wants so
much but never takes in the whole picture; u know. It seems as though
everyone has there ideal picture of their perfect partner; but, when it
comes down to it they are going to be the ones that are lonely and
depressed. No one is perfect and shouldn't be. It wouldn't be right 1st
of all and then it wouldn't be any fun not getting to know the person if
you already have a set image in ur head. Love should be about the
feelings two people build and share together; not what they look like. I
guess I'm just one of those old fashioned and traditionally raised
country girls that knows the golden rule...Do unto others how ud have
done unto ur self. If looks really mattered then everyone would be off
fukn' themselves wouldn't they. lol

Not all women are attracted to that type of man.

Well Will, there are men that aren't pretty boys that treat women badly,
and vice a versa. Men are just as judgemental of women.. they assume
because she is pretty that she can have any guy they want, but sometimes
it just as hard for the pretty people to meet someone, and alot of the
time people assume that they if the person is good looking that they
already have someone. I get that all thetime, not that I ama raving
beauty, but at work, I mentionthat I am single and have to dothings
alone, and the ugys are like "Yeah right!" Well I am single and I Dont
know why... I am easy to get along with, and down to earth... Most
women just want to meet a nice guy, one that will treat them with
respect, and want to be with them, and not with his buddies all the
time.

mia culpa.....WIll

WELL THE ONLY THING THATS A TURN OFF FOR ME IS WHEN A GUY IS
OVERBEARING...THEY THINK THEIR IN LOVE ONLY MOMENTS AFTER MEETING THAT
SHIT IS SCARY TO ME IT WILL SEND ME RUNNING IN THE OTHER DIRECTION....

Sometimes panterafan, we are looking for something so hard that it
blinds us to reality..Most of us a re just by products of our upbringing
and everyones version of love is based on what their parents was..If
someone likes you alot right off the bat don't shit a way apossible
opportunity by running..Give it a chance.. afterall you only live a lot
shorter time than you would think and when it is over ..it is over..
btw did you like my poem?? Will

I think a lot of the prob is that too may men are intimidated by a
beautiful woman..especially if said guy doesn't consider himself
particularily attractive on a physical level..To be honest, neither of
my wives were all that good looking, some of that was because I had a
low self image and so I settled. The reality is gentlemen, if ya don't
ask, you'll never know..what's the worst she can do?..say no?..my last 2
g/f's and my current one are incredibly beautiful, but I got the chance
to be with them simply because I was interested in getting to know them,
not because I wanted to bunt them. I do believe most women want a nice
guy, but far too many have been abused and raped that they don't really
know what to do when they finally do get nice guy

NICE BUYS.....FINISH.........LAST...WILL

No Will, they don't...there's a difference between being nice and being
a doormat...Any successful relationship, whether as a couple or just
with family and friends requires boundaries, and what I've found with
most truly nice ppl is they have weak boundaries. I should know, I used
to be one of them lol. You HAVE to let ppl know what your limits
are,it's only fair to both of you...if you're with someone that
continually crosses those boundaries then it's time to move on cuz it
won't matter what kind of guy you are.

WELL I COULD USE MY UPBRINGING AS A EXCUSE...BUT I REFUSE TO.I HAD A
UNSPEAKABLE CHILDHOOD,BUT I GOT TO A POINT WHERE IT WASNT GONNA RUN MY
LIFE ANYMORE,AND I WONT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT I WANT.AND I
DONT GO FOR PRETTY BOYS,THEY ARE ALL THE SAME TO ME

My first marriage I married the bad boy and yes your are right he
treated me like crap. The next time I was looking for someone who would
treat me and my kids good and I found him. So not all women like the bad
guys esp. if they have been there before.

Ok ladies I hate to sound like the bitch but comeon really. You can't
say that looks doesn't matter at all. Really it does I know I can't be
intimate with someone I am not physically attracted to I have tried it
it doesn't work. There has to be some physical attraction atleast. I
have recently been in that situation and let me tell you he was so nice
and kind to me and I thought ok this guy wont hurt me so I am sure that
I can grow to be attracted to him but it didn't work. I am not saying
that looks are everything and there are many things about a person that
can be attractive without being supermodel material but all in all there
has to be something there to start out with and to be honest there is a
lot to be said about someone who puts time and thought into how they
look. If you care enough about yourself to maintain yourself in a clean
and respectable manner than you have more of a capability to love
another. Oh and by the way I am not ugly and would actually consider
myself one of the beautiful people so to speak not supermodel standards
but I know that I look good and there is nothing wrong with that I take
pride in myself. That doesn't mean I automatically can have any guy I
want and besides when you look good it is usually the assholes that hit
on you cause the nice guys are too intimidated to try.

My first husband looks much better to most then my second husband does
but to me he is hot because he treats me like a queen. First I feel in
love with his voice oh he has the sexiest voice on the phone that I have
ever heard then I feel in love with him.

i agree that there has to be some physical attraction and i don't think
that someone should feel hurt if someone politely says it. but i also
know that if you fall in love with the person that you are with it does
make them more attractive in your eyes. i agree with the boundries
comment that animal made also. i am an extremely nice guy but alot of
women do see it as being a doormat but then when i put my foot down they
act all hurt and try to blame it on me, so i leave. i'm still trying to
find that girl that says she wants a nice guy and realizes when he is
standing in front of her. i don't want to be with someone who i have to
constantly remind that they are crossing the line, they are supposed to
be an adult not a little kid. so i just chill by myself til i meet her.
i would rather find her sooner than later but being single ain't that
bad. i don't understand how someone would put their self respect over
being lonely.

sorry, i meant being lonely over their self respect lol