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Topic: its a general question for a friend not me
itsmetina's photo
Thu 05/29/08 05:54 AM
and i guess he's sleepin on the couch

sum14u2c's photo
Thu 05/29/08 05:55 AM
Edited by sum14u2c on Thu 05/29/08 05:56 AM
sounds like the "ex bf" may actually be the current husband...either way it seems like trouble. take ten steps slowly backwards & then turn around and RUN! jmo...

notmytimeline20x6's photo
Thu 05/29/08 06:02 AM
Edited by notmytimeline20x6 on Thu 05/29/08 06:07 AM

stressed typing


huh hmmm ... is that the "new" punctuation-less era bigsmile bigsmile



As to the OP .... please. noway grumble

Read your own drama. The answer lies within. Come on now.
yes , but he's on the inside . He wants a view from the outside.:wink:
(p.s. read the comment above me)

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Thu 05/29/08 07:59 AM
It sounds like she hasn't broken her emotional, financial (and perhaps even physical) attachment to the ex. Who knows. She may be too afraid to try to make it on her own, in every way. The woman needs to work on herself before she can hope to give of herself to another.

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Thu 05/29/08 08:00 AM

if I understand the question correctly....sounds like the woman needs to get her sh*t together before she makes anymore drastic moves. Sounds like she is just boyfriend bouncing.

Succinct and to the point. Well said.

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Thu 05/29/08 08:13 AM

Ok here go's sorry for it what iam saying is this if a women had trouble with her x bf and was alone and depressed this man fell sorry for her and talked to her as a friend.

Well a long story short this women fall's in love with the new man and they talk every day on the computer or on the cell.

but there is no time for thease to to spend with she claims to be working every day at mc donald's well any how she ask him if she could live with him knowing he shares a home with to sister's and kid's ect he work's out a deal and tell's her she could move in but in the other hand she tell's him a differnt story say's i have to straiten it out with him first dose this sound to fishy?

also she tell's him she will call but dose not the man who's my friend is upset because he has no clue what's going on so he confronted her today and said he will talk to the x bf and find out what's going on her reply was if he did she would split up with him so what's wrong with this pic?

she only live's 10 mile's away and this guy has done a lot for her already my question is this maybe a hudge head game and also not cool to do.

why do some women do this why is that this women tell the man she love's him but change's her mind about living with him after he went out of his way and worked it out to have her move in .
Sounds to me like the ex is not an ex, and she's trying to find a way out without having to take responsibility for herself.

This assumption is based on the opinion of a woman who does not believe one can honestly enter into a relationship until she is standing completely on her own...otherwise all she has to offer is leftovers on a dirty plate. ohwell

My philosophy on that in general is that if they are not free, it's gonna cost ya. ohwell

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Thu 05/29/08 08:20 AM


Ok here go's sorry for it what iam saying is this if a women had trouble with her x bf and was alone and depressed this man fell sorry for her and talked to her as a friend.

Well a long story short this women fall's in love with the new man and they talk every day on the computer or on the cell.

but there is no time for thease to to spend with she claims to be working every day at mc donald's well any how she ask him if she could live with him knowing he shares a home with to sister's and kid's ect he work's out a deal and tell's her she could move in but in the other hand she tell's him a differnt story say's i have to straiten it out with him first dose this sound to fishy?

also she tell's him she will call but dose not the man who's my friend is upset because he has no clue what's going on so he confronted her today and said he will talk to the x bf and find out what's going on her reply was if he did she would split up with him so what's wrong with this pic?

she only live's 10 mile's away and this guy has done a lot for her already my question is this maybe a hudge head game and also not cool to do.

why do some women do this why is that this women tell the man she love's him but change's her mind about living with him after he went out of his way and worked it out to have her move in .
Sounds to me like the ex is not an ex, and she's trying to find a way out without having to take responsibility for herself.

This assumption is based on the opinion of a woman who does not believe one can honestly enter into a relationship until she is standing completely on her own...otherwise all she has to offer is leftovers on a dirty plate. ohwell

My philosophy on that in general is that if they are not free, it's gonna cost ya. ohwell
well said,flowerforyou

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Thu 05/29/08 02:50 PM
he left her hi and dry today infact she tried to push a fast one on him .

he walked out on her fast and easy well not every one is perfect in spelling we are humen we make mistake's .


But thank you all he was not going to deal with it nor will i. I tell you guy's and gal's i wouldn't alow that to happend to me im to smart for it im real i dont play game's.

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Thu 05/29/08 02:57 PM
Games for sure

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/29/08 03:11 PM

Yes, my opinion is use punctuation.


yup! punctuation is a good thang!
"she has a freckle on her but, I love her"
"She has a freckle on her, but I love her"

drinker

No1sLove's photo
Thu 05/29/08 04:50 PM


Yes, my opinion is use punctuation.


yup! punctuation is a good thang!
"she has a freckle on her but, I love her"
"She has a freckle on her, but I love her"

drinker
laugh Who told. laugh

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Thu 05/29/08 04:51 PM
hmmph. make her disappear?

DestinysDream's photo
Thu 05/29/08 04:58 PM
2 GUYS hOW cAN THAt NOT be A game?

Poetrywriter's photo
Thu 05/29/08 04:59 PM

I can't understand your question..you need some punctuation, quickly.


but Hiker, the fine print in the forum rules say that punctuation costs extra! laugh

hikerchick's photo
Thu 05/29/08 06:12 PM


I can't understand your question..you need some punctuation, quickly.


but Hiker, the fine print in the forum rules say that punctuation costs extra! laugh
Costs be damned, man, let's communicate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Thu 05/29/08 07:42 PM
'very true indeed iam so happy for one thing if you can understand my typing then you can read it so if you can read and understand at the same time then thats a god thing lol.

But also my topic was based on a true advent it's very sad to see some one do this to the other.

but as we are all here we are teacher's and also learner's so we pick up new thing's as we go. thank's every one talking about getting old my birthday's on sat the 31 oop's did i geve my bday awa dang lol.

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Thu 05/29/08 07:45 PM
Thu 05/29/08 07:42 PM
'very true indeed iam so happy for one thing if you can understand my typing then you can read it so if you can read and understand at the same time then thats a god thing lol.

But also my topic was based on a true advent it's very sad to see some one do this to the other.

but as we are all here we are teacher's and also learner's so we pick up new thing's as we go.

Thank's every one, talking about getting old my birthday's on sat the 31 oop's did i give my bday away dang lol.

see some times i mis type i type fast but i went back and corrected it lol

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