Topic: Transition
shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 05/28/08 12:13 PM
I am trying....newly, to be friend's with an ex bf while striking up something new with a man that is very decent. With good moral's. Am I wrong to try to do this?

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Wed 05/28/08 12:14 PM
No, nothing wrong with that at all. Just don't get caught up in any ex crap. Move forward!! flowerforyou

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Wed 05/28/08 12:15 PM

I am trying....newly, to be friend's with an ex bf while striking up something new with a man that is very decent. With good moral's. Am I wrong to try to do this?


As long as the ex knows your just being civil and he doesn't read anything else into it I think it's fine.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 05/28/08 12:15 PM
not at all as long as all can handle it you'll be fine...

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 05/28/08 12:16 PM
Sounds good,

But me personally i dun kick it with x's

thas just me thou ,

Lance1205's photo
Wed 05/28/08 12:17 PM
No just don't give the ex anymore than friendship. And ladies for all of you, make sure that's clear to him. Some guys get hurt to by thinking things are other than what they truly are. So be clear what your intentions are.

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 05/28/08 12:24 PM

No just don't give the ex anymore than friendship. And ladies for all of you, make sure that's clear to him. Some guys get hurt to by thinking things are other than what they truly are. So be clear what your intentions are.
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I had written him a long heartfelt letter about being friend's. I think though that, for him, it is a new start. Is this so wrong? Is this the way thing's should have started? I know I had demand's and expectation's of the way thing's should have been. I so often have heard that expectation's kill. Is this a new start I don't yet know about?

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Wed 05/28/08 12:46 PM
There's nothing wrong with being friendly with exs.

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Wed 05/28/08 12:53 PM
why do you need to be friends with an ex????huh

Being cordial yes.......but friends????

Ok where is that movie "When Harry met Sally"????huh We need to watch that again!!:wink: laugh