Ok to all the men that use silence and avoidance instead of the truth,
can you explain why this method is used vs being honest???

And Happy Valentine's to All JustSayHi Users :)

I suppose today isn't the day to call out men I do realize some women
use these tactics.... but it isn't such a happy valentine's day for me.

Someone I've grown to like alot really disappointed me after we meet up
this past weekend. We appeared to have sparks and the activties were
great but the day I departed he appeared distant, uninterested, and alot
too comfortable. I know is there such a thing? In my opinion yes.

I questioned him regarding him appearing uninterested, he stated I was
over analyzing. I do tend to do that. Occupational hazzard. I asked
him if he wanted to meet up again, he said, I said it was a good
weekend... (whatever that meet)

When we departed, things were kinda strange, almost rushed, but not by
him, the cab driver, we kissed and he said talk soon.
While at the airport, I contacted him, and said that wasn't quite the
good-bye I expected, stating I thought he was going to join me to the
airport. He stated, I'm not good at good-byes, I get emotional.

Since returing from our mini weekend... after 3 attempts to find out if
he made it home, he sent me a text Monday saying... got home ok, thanks,
and talk soon.

I have since found out he has blocked me on yahoo messenger and didn't
reply to an e-card I sent him thanking him for his generious weekend.
Now my question, is why don't men just say when asked it wasn't a love
match and now choosing avoidance. Can anyone help me here? I'm not a
stranger to relationships but I am to someone using avoidance/silence.