Topic: Too Independent?
NVaini's photo
Tue 05/27/08 04:59 PM
Edited by NVaini on Tue 05/27/08 05:35 PM

Bornnaked's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:01 PM
Your asking for way to much.laugh

NVaini's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:03 PM
How's that?

Totage's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:03 PM
Perhaps he has more to offer than what you see.

boneyjoe's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:04 PM
different strokes for different folks,,,,,,,,what kind of bike you got????

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:04 PM
or perhaps it's the area.. Do you live in a smaller town not in the city? Women are a bit different in the city...

Bornnaked's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:04 PM
Sarcasm.Wish you luck.

Dragoness's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:05 PM

I just moved to the area I currenlty live in almost 1 year ago for work where I only knew one person. Slowly but surely I get to know my neighbors. The 2 across the street who are newlyweds (great neighbors), and my neighbor next door who just got a divorce. (Bare with me, I am getting to my point) This one neighbor recently divorced, just started dating someone. She comes over cleans the house, does the laundry, etc. There has even been a couple instances where the parents have come over to cut the lawn and tend to his house...while he's there. I sit back and scratch my head and wonder, "and I'm the one that's single!" I purchased my second home (I am 28), have a great job, benefits, retirement, stocks, bonds, tend to my lawn and maintain my home, garden, work on my vechicle, and some where in there either relax or take a motorcycle ride. This isn't a pity party, I am merely frustrated at the fact that I would imagine that a woman would want someone self-sufficient and independent. Who has goals, dreams, wants security, and wants to enjoy life together. Does a woman want someone to take care of?


I think individually some women need to be needed more than others, so they do more to stay needed. You will find someone that will mesh with the life you have chosen for yourself, don't worry about how others run their relationships, just continue to be yourself. Good luck

NVaini's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:05 PM
I know it was Bornnaked, I am open to any criticism.

izzie's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:06 PM
Edited by izzie on Tue 05/27/08 05:07 PM
uuuummm....
no.
i have 4 kids already.. i do NOT need another one!! especilaly in the form of my b/f...



in fact....


will you marry me??bigsmile

j/k... just remember.. you are who you are.. dont change it for someone else!!
flowerforyou

NVaini's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:08 PM
Moved to Central Illinois from West of Chicago IndnPrncs

msjkk2020's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:08 PM

I just moved to the area I currenlty live in almost 1 year ago for work where I only knew one person. Slowly but surely I get to know my neighbors. The 2 across the street who are newlyweds (great neighbors), and my neighbor next door who just got a divorce. (Bare with me, I am getting to my point) This one neighbor recently divorced, just started dating someone. She comes over cleans the house, does the laundry, etc. There has even been a couple instances where the parents have come over to cut the lawn and tend to his house...while he's there. I sit back and scratch my head and wonder, "and I'm the one that's single!" I purchased my second home (I am 28), have a great job, benefits, retirement, stocks, bonds, tend to my lawn and maintain my home, garden, work on my vechicle, and some where in there either relax or take a motorcycle ride. This isn't a pity party, I am merely frustrated at the fact that I would imagine that a woman would want someone self-sufficient and independent. Who has goals, dreams, wants security, and wants to enjoy life together. Does a woman want someone to take care of?



Come to Oklahoma honey and you can mow my yard! I will even quit my job for you! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

NVaini's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:10 PM
Thanks to all of you guys, very frustrated and needed to at least say something to a friend or thru justsayhi

lifestooshort6's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:10 PM
i have no idea, either
but when she comes along she'll be one lucky girl

good luckdrinker

LouLou2's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:11 PM
I'd like to find someone to share my life. I'm very independent...take care of my own house, car, bills, etc. it would be nice to think that my S.O. & I would take care of each other in some ways...but no, I'm not looking for someone to nurture, nurse or clean up after.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:12 PM
you'll find her... good luck NV flowerforyou flowerforyou

BlueskyJ's photo
Tue 05/27/08 05:36 PM
You don't even know your neighbor so why bring him up? it has nothing to do with you....It's great that you are a together person because most women i know value that in a man....finding someone is usually not all that easy....just don't depend on this site to find someone cause that is highly unlikely to happen.....

there are other dating sites that have many more choices especially in your area....I like this site for the boards & for friendship, but in the year i've been on this site i've only dated one person & that was just a single date.....however, the story is much more different on some other sites.....


I just moved to the area I currenlty live in almost 1 year ago for work where I only knew one person. Slowly but surely I get to know my neighbors. The 2 across the street who are newlyweds (great neighbors), and my neighbor next door who just got a divorce. (Bare with me, I am getting to my point) This one neighbor recently divorced, just started dating someone. She comes over cleans the house, does the laundry, etc. There has even been a couple instances where the parents have come over to cut the lawn and tend to his house...while he's there. I sit back and scratch my head and wonder, "and I'm the one that's single!" I purchased my second home (I am 28), have a great job, benefits, retirement, stocks, bonds, tend to my lawn and maintain my home, garden, work on my vechicle, and some where in there either relax or take a motorcycle ride. This isn't a pity party, I am merely frustrated at the fact that I would imagine that a woman would want someone self-sufficient and independent. Who has goals, dreams, wants security, and wants to enjoy life together. Does a woman want someone to take care of?