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Topic: Sexually Incompatible
No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 05/27/08 12:21 AM
Have any of you ever been really in Love with someone you were sexually incompatible with? Are we talking about things not meshing properly or finally seeing them naked and thinking, "put your clothes back on!". Ummm...think that's the "have you ever jumped out the window on a date?" thread. Oh, missed that thread. Happy to have obliged in reminding you of that thread.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Tue 05/27/08 08:06 AM
Ok, I'll keep my fingers crossed for only one. well so far today I have received 4 emails that basically told me since I have a woman in the photos with me I should leave the site, even though I have for friends only in my profile. Do I hear a fifth? It's cause you are such a hotty that you are dissapointing us all. bwahahahaha, I hardly think that is it. People just dont like the word no I'm sure that's it

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 05/27/08 08:59 AM
No.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 05/27/08 09:00 AM
since it is jsh it is completely normal for a thread about sexual compatability to be turned into sweet home alabama. Anyone who cannot see the connection here has certainly not been on the site long enough I need to pay more attention.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 05/27/08 09:07 AM
I have a woman in my photos, but it is my daughter, but your OK with me, hang out. She's lovely.

cloudedsunshine Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 1375	Tue 05/27/08 09:20 AM
I think that sexual compatiblity is part of being "in" love. I have a bunch of guy friends I love but arenb't "in" love because of no sexual compatibility.

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Tue 05/27/08 09:24 AM
i have a penis...she has a vagina..... What's so incompatible about that........

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 05/27/08 09:25 AM
no

elsathebloody Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 2107	Tue 05/27/08 09:28 AM
Nope. If anything, I fell in love because we are VERY sexually compatible.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Tue 05/27/08 09:35 AM
Have any of you ever been really in Love with someone you were sexually incompatible with? Yes, and we have decided that friendship was the only thing that was in our future. It hurt like heck to say that, but it was either that or neither of us being real happy. He is now happily married and I am engaged, so it worked out for the best.

Abracadabra Joined Thu 04/12/07 Posts: 17851	Tue 05/27/08 09:37 AM
Have any of you ever been really in Love with someone you were sexually incompatible with? Unfortunately I’ve never been in love so I wouldn’t know. I can say that I’ve been friends with women that I was sexually incompatible with. And it was along the same lines as you’ve described. They were only interested in my being rough with them and they were very impatient about it. They seemed to like it quick and hard. Any quite frankly that doesn’t do anything for me. I prefer slow and gentle. I’m not talking about ever single act of making love, I’m talking about the bigger picture. It’s always seemed almost paradoxical to me that women are always complaining that men aren’t into foreplay. Because, without exception, every women I’ve ever been with sexually was just the opposite. They were in a rush to get to the big “O”, and they were finished before I even got warmed up. They seemed to enjoy sex that way, but it did nothing for me. From my point of view it was a completely one-sided thing. They were enjoying the sex and I wasn’t. I even tried talking about it, but unfortunately they weren’t able to comprehend the idea at all. So even talking about was a waste of time.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 05/27/08 12:39 PM Edited by Winx on Tue 05/27/08 12:40 PM
Have any of you ever been really in Love with someone you were sexually incompatible with? Unfortunately I’ve never been in love so I wouldn’t know. I can say that I’ve been friends with women that I was sexually incompatible with. And it was along the same lines as you’ve described. They were only interested in my being rough with them and they were very impatient about it. They seemed to like it quick and hard. Any quite frankly that doesn’t do anything for me. I prefer slow and gentle. I’m not talking about ever single act of making love, I’m talking about the bigger picture. It’s always seemed almost paradoxical to me that women are always complaining that men aren’t into foreplay. Because, without exception, every women I’ve ever been with sexually was just the opposite. They were in a rush to get to the big “O”, and they were finished before I even got warmed up. They seemed to enjoy sex that way, but it did nothing for me. From my point of view it was a completely one-sided thing. They were enjoying the sex and I wasn’t. I even tried talking about it, but unfortunately they weren’t able to comprehend the idea at all. So even talking about was a waste of time. I thought that women were multi-orgasmic.