Topic: IT JUST HIT ME...
hauveralan's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:26 PM
PARTY AT MY HOUSE FOR EVERYONE WHO JUST WANTS TO GET DRUNK AND FORGET ABOUT ALL OF LIFES STUPID SHLT...............

CherrySparks212's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:26 PM

Just remind your self often that THIS was and is for BOTH of you.
THE BEST decision, and its over, but YOU have a chance at a GREAT NEW START....so be happy and never look back or have him take you back into his arms,,,it NEVER works again...:cry:
Its just sex and prolonged pain...:heart: Good luck.:heart:
THAT IS TRUE THIS WILL BE THE 4TH TIME ME LEAVING....IM DONE

FaithfulOne78's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:26 PM


Hey I moved outta my Exs house after 7 1/2 years...but he was an abusive a$$hole so I had no problem doing it..but you can always talk to someone..or go get really $****faced..which is what I did as well laugh
YEA MINE TOO THATS Y IM JUST TRYING TO THINK OF ALL THE CRAP HES PUT ME THROUGH SO I WONT BE A BABY AND I COULD BE STRONG...ITS MAKIN HIM MAD THAT IM NOT SHOWING THAT IM SAD....WTFhuh


Well Just keep your chin up girl...it will all work out for you..I had to have family with me when I did though..to much stuff to move and it wasn't safe for me by myself with his temper..but I wish you the best..and you can always mail me if you want to chat..I know how you feelflowerforyou (((huggs)))

tanyaann's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:27 PM


IM MOVING OUT OF MY EXES HOUSE IN ABOUT 45 MIN AND IT JUST HIT ME....NOW IM GETTING SAD...BUT HES AN ASS AND I REALLY SHOULD JUST BE HAPPY....BUT 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME....GOT ANYTHING TO CHEER ME UP?sad :cry:


why did you wait so long to move out


b/c abuse doesn't happen over night, it is a gradual thing! you should never question a women's judgement for taking so long, you should applaud her to taking a stand and moving out.

I am proud of you cherry! I was in the same boat and know what you are going through. I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU!!!!1

FaithfulOne78's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:27 PM

PARTY AT MY HOUSE FOR EVERYONE WHO JUST WANTS TO GET DRUNK AND FORGET ABOUT ALL OF LIFES STUPID SHLT...............


drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

CherrySparks212's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:27 PM

PARTY AT MY HOUSE FOR EVERYONE WHO JUST WANTS TO GET DRUNK AND FORGET ABOUT ALL OF LIFES STUPID SHLT...............
IM ON MY WAY.............drinker

LouLou2's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:28 PM

BUT 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME....GOT ANYTHING TO CHEER ME UP?sad :cry:


At least it wasn't 26 years...better now, while you are young & before you lose more time, than later, don't you think?

mzrightkris's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:28 PM
I went throught he same thing 2yrs ago.... it does suck but it gets easier with time.... hang in there!!!

tanyaann's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:29 PM
Edited by tanyaann on Mon 05/26/08 01:29 PM



IM MOVING OUT OF MY EXES HOUSE IN ABOUT 45 MIN AND IT JUST HIT ME....NOW IM GETTING SAD...BUT HES AN ASS AND I REALLY SHOULD JUST BE HAPPY....BUT 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME....GOT ANYTHING TO CHEER ME UP?sad :cry:


why did you wait so long to move out
STUPIDITY....


no, its not stupidity! you are strong and beautiful women, always remember that! some times when we are in the middle of the situation, there are things that we just don't see. never say that its stupidity, you learn and grow from every experience!

hauveralan's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:29 PM
I GOT PLEANTY OF ROOM FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO STAY TO.......JUST BRING A SLEEPING BAG AND A BOTTLE OF YOUR FAV. DRINK........

CherrySparks212's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:29 PM



IM MOVING OUT OF MY EXES HOUSE IN ABOUT 45 MIN AND IT JUST HIT ME....NOW IM GETTING SAD...BUT HES AN ASS AND I REALLY SHOULD JUST BE HAPPY....BUT 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME....GOT ANYTHING TO CHEER ME UP?sad :cry:


why did you wait so long to move out


b/c abuse doesn't happen over night, it is a gradual thing! you should never question a women's judgement for taking so long, you should applaud her to taking a stand and moving out.

I am proud of you cherry! I was in the same boat and know what you are going through. I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU!!!!1
HEY I SAID CHEER ME UP THAT MADE ME CRY....happy BUT ONLY BECUZ I DONT EVEN KNOW U GUYS AND UR BEING VERY KIND....THANK U

lcjw's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:29 PM
It will be painfull, but as time go by, it will get better. Try to stop communication with him, and soon you will see that he is a thing of the past. If you can't get away from him, because you feel you love him too much, then reflect on this: is the love you have for him worth your pain? If the answer is no, then walk away. Email if you need moral support.
flowerforyou :heart:

feistybaby's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:29 PM
flowerforyou Give yourself time to say goodbye to the past and permission to embrace the future. It's hard letting go sometimes and if you start feeling bad about it remind yourself why you broke up to begin with. Go hang out with your friends they will help you through...talk it out don't bottle it up...a load shared is a load divided.

Best of luck~

FaithfulOne78's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:30 PM

I GOT PLEANTY OF ROOM FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO STAY TO.......JUST BRING A SLEEPING BAG AND A BOTTLE OF YOUR FAV. DRINK........


Sleeping bag? I think not! I claim the bed..and you as my body pillow!laugh devil devil

hauveralan's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:31 PM


I GOT PLEANTY OF ROOM FOR PEOPLE THAT WANT TO STAY TO.......JUST BRING A SLEEPING BAG AND A BOTTLE OF YOUR FAV. DRINK........


Sleeping bag? I think not! I claim the bed..and you as my body pillow!laugh devil devil


devil devil devil devil

tanyaann's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:32 PM




IM MOVING OUT OF MY EXES HOUSE IN ABOUT 45 MIN AND IT JUST HIT ME....NOW IM GETTING SAD...BUT HES AN ASS AND I REALLY SHOULD JUST BE HAPPY....BUT 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME....GOT ANYTHING TO CHEER ME UP?sad :cry:


why did you wait so long to move out


b/c abuse doesn't happen over night, it is a gradual thing! you should never question a women's judgement for taking so long, you should applaud her to taking a stand and moving out.

I am proud of you cherry! I was in the same boat and know what you are going through. I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU!!!!1
HEY I SAID CHEER ME UP THAT MADE ME CRY....happy BUT ONLY BECUZ I DONT EVEN KNOW U GUYS AND UR BEING VERY KIND....THANK U


flowerforyou i am here anytime you need to talk flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:34 PM
I found the adjustment easier when I realized how much less stress I had to deal with. It felt so good!happy

tanyaann's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:37 PM

I found the adjustment easier when I realized how much less stress I had to deal with. It felt so good!happy


less stress, less worry, less walking on egg shells.... it is tough letting go to the 'good' times, but after you are out of the environment and have time to reflect on everything you will realize that you are strong and you don't even have to deal with that again!

Just trust your instincts in future relationships, look for red flags, know that you are strong all on your own and don't need anyone. And you will find yourself again!

tanyaann's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:38 PM
and now I am going to pick my noce and flick it at someone to make you laugh!bigsmile

FaithfulOne78's photo
Mon 05/26/08 01:39 PM

and now I am going to pick my noce and flick it at someone to make you laugh!bigsmile


laugh laugh laugh laugh