My boyfriend and I broke up about two months ago, so about three weeks ago I decided to start dating again. I've gone on about 4 dates since, but it seems like the two guys I was dating stopped seeming interested. What should I do? I don't usually ask these things in public forums but I really need advice...

You could try doing something different on dates, like bowling, or going to play mini-golf, try to keep him guessing whats up for the next date...

ME AND MY BF BROKE UP YESTERDAY SO I KNOW HOW U FEEL....BUT ANYWAYS IF THEY STOPPED BEING INTERESTED DONT WASTE UR TIME JUST MOVE ON THERE AREA BILLION OF GUYS OUT THERE U JUST GOTTA GO THROUGH SOME LOSERS TO GET TO THE RIGHT ONE...GOOD LUCK

Keep bein available hon .. no rush

just find some more to date...lol...perhaps they ceased appearing interested because they were not interested? don't blame yourself or them. It is just how life goes sometimes

relax, your young...have fun

Perhaps it is evident to new suitors that you are not over your previous relationship. Maybe some time to yourself, to get reaquainted with yourself, your needs and expectations, is in order. And, perhaps you need more time to grieve and get introspection before embarking on a new relationship with anyone.

Did the two guys know you were dating another guys.

For me it's a huge f-ing buzzkill to be on a date with someone and hear about her other dates. #1 way I lose interest.

hun, you are 18 years old. Just go out have fun, take your time getting to know a guy before committing to something serious. Believe me you probably aren't going to meet the love of your life now, but if you do he will be more than willing to wait for you to truly get to know him.

i think that if the guys loose interest its not yur fault its theirs they dont see what they have when they have it. guys are usually blind to anything good they have and tehn once they loose it they finally realize exactly how much they had. so screw them and dont loose hope on dating its only been 3 weeks u said thats now that long all u gotta do is keep your head up and keep looking go ut with differnet guys and have fun and if you really start to like one certain guy then try things with them. dont loose hope and dont give up until u find someone that you are REALLY interested in and is interested in you. your still young. it wont take you too long hun. dont give up.

SOME guys will "STOP" after THEY get ALL that they wanted from you..

LOSE THEM AZZHOLES,,,they were user's. Find the one who DOESN'T want to LET YOU GO!!!! He will have real heart for you as a person and a lover..and might even be a long-term kind-of dude...They or ANY DUDE has to want "ALL" of you not just "PARTS"...thats my best words of advice to you...I hope it helps.. Good luck with finding real

dont push things and let them develope naturally. You cannot instantly replace swomething that has gone mising in your life, it takes time to build a relationship. You are 18, enjoy your life, and let things happen as they will. You are too young to let this stress you out. COncentrate on you, the rest will take care of itself over time. Regardless of what some may tell you, it is ok to be a little selfish, and make sure your basic needs are met before you worry about another

I made it clear that I was dating both of them, they knew about it and didnt mind because they were dating other girls too. I'm just looking to have fun I wasn't looking for someone to move in and be serious with just yet lol I want to wait a little while longer for that. Thanks for all the advice

i say keep being yourself.... for if they are not happy with who you are they never will be ..... that way you will get the right guy if you are yourself... move on they just werent right for you.... and you will find that happen to you also... when someone isnt just right for you also

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No, really. If your problem is a guy....
DUMP HIM.

If your problem is not a guy....Go get one and then DUMP HIM.


Oh well, there are other people that can help...I'm for amusemnet only

Lol, I'm still trying to actually get a date.

U AMUSE THE HELL OUTTA ME I LOVE IT

You're young, attractive, and have cool tats. One word comes to mind. "Next".

I guess that they just wern't the right ones it takes time, I'm still looking.

Thats what dating is for, to meet people and have a little fun, get to know each other.