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Topic: Afraid of having kids?
Kleisto's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:09 PM
Ok, I have this fear of having children of my own. Don't get me wrong, it'd be great to be a parent, but I'm afraid that if I did have kids, I wouldn't do a very good job of being a dad. That I wouldn't know what to do or how to handle things. Doesn't help that I'm an only child, and am not used to having to look out for anyone outside of myself really. I'm scared about what it would mean to be a parent, and the responsibilities that would come with it.

Charliedontsurf's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:10 PM
Ill pop those things out like a slot machine

kerbear73's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:10 PM
It is something you grow into, as the child grows, you grow as a parent :smile:

MikeOxbig's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:10 PM
Trust me man I was thinkin the same thing too but than I had a mini me of my own and he is the best thing thats ever happend to me. I strive off of being the best dad that I can now............Couldnt imagine it any other way

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Sun 05/25/08 07:11 PM
Edited by kendrab90 on Sun 05/25/08 07:12 PM
well first you'll get sick then really hungry gradual weight gain body change


oh



a dad?



laugh laugh

ffdickie's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:12 PM
Edited by ffdickie on Sun 05/25/08 07:13 PM
I love my kids. It's the greatest feeling in the world to look into their eyes for the first time and have them stare back into yours and KNOW that part of you is running through them. Knowing that you had a part in creating such a beautiful little thing!

Theres no guide book, you just do what you "feel" is right and hope it catches on.

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Sun 05/25/08 07:13 PM
be there for your kids.....always........that is a perfect dad............:smile: :smile: :smile:

Thomas27's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:14 PM
If your really a dude, I don't think you do the actual "having". Nothing to sweat about there.:smile:

heartofgold321's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:15 PM

be there for your kids.....always........that is a perfect dad............:smile: :smile: :smile:

You got it!drinker drinker drinker

rainysky39's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:15 PM
To all you dads out there!!! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Kleisto's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:15 PM

well first you'll get sick then really hungry gradual weight gain body change


oh



a dad?



laugh laugh


laugh laugh laugh

poohbearface19's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:16 PM
well iam preschool teacher soo i say iam scared actually of messing up on how i treat my kids..........yet iam a preschool teacher..........well finishng up,,,,,,,,,I love children...... wiht all my heart thats it children people tell me ill be a great parent i treat my dog like a child..........so i say whatever happens happens if i turn into a parent one day.........oh well i welll treat them the best i can

doodlebuggrrl's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:19 PM
Dont be scared of having kids, when it happens your fears will subside because the only thing youre going to be thinking about is that baby youre holding in your arms, and how you ever managed life with out him/her.

No1sLove's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:20 PM
I think when you don't have those concerns that you should be worried...as we all would. laugh Everyone has that fear I think, it's perfectly natural. flowerforyou

poohbearface19's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:21 PM
i really like children they are osooo cute.....but i dought ill have kids........... in a long time..........ahhaahaa:wink: :smile: laugh happy love smooched drinker drinker drinker drinker

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Sun 05/25/08 07:23 PM
im more scared about if i cant have children.

also i believe if you had a baby, it would come naturally to you.

poohbearface19's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:27 PM
iam scared of baby getting stuck inside..mean how does it come out of such small place

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Sun 05/25/08 07:29 PM

iam scared of baby getting stuck inside..mean how does it come out of such small place


i dont think i could give birth naturally, i think it would kill me.

poohbearface19's photo
Sun 05/25/08 07:32 PM
really really hahaahah i do want kids one day......... i really really do...........if it were up too me i would have a kid already just too young.......... but i really would love a kid.........

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Sun 05/25/08 07:34 PM

really really hahaahah i do want kids one day......... i really really do...........if it were up too me i would have a kid already just too young.......... but i really would love a kid.........



me to, but i dont know if i can.

and if i did get pregnant, now way would a baby come out there noway noway

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