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Topic: question for women
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Mon 05/26/08 08:10 AM
mostly to the ones who say they are only looking for friends on JSH, if you became good friends with a guy on here, would you not consider ever dating him. just curious about this.

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Mon 05/26/08 08:12 AM
One can never really say for sure. I am here mostly for friends because my first attempt here didnt work out so well and I would rather be alone with friends than to face that rejection again. But, you never know.

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Mon 05/26/08 08:12 AM
Establishing a friendship is usually the foundation one builds a LTR upon.....

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Mon 05/26/08 08:12 AM

mostly to the ones who say they are only looking for friends on JSH, if you became good friends with a guy on here, would you not consider ever dating him. just curious about this.

most who say they are looking just for a friend are probably married!!laugh

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Mon 05/26/08 08:13 AM

mostly to the ones who say they are only looking for friends on JSH, if you became good friends with a guy on here, would you not consider ever dating him. just curious about this.


Not unless I broke up with my BF (not on here)

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Mon 05/26/08 08:13 AM

mostly to the ones who say they are only looking for friends on JSH, if you became good friends with a guy on here, would you not consider ever dating him. just curious about this.


This has actually happened to me! I am still in friend only mode but some jerk here thinks it doesnt pertain to him and well...I guess I'm gonna let him come visit! HA!bigsmile

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Mon 05/26/08 08:15 AM
Just looking for friends saves us from all the freaks. devil


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Mon 05/26/08 08:16 AM
I stopped looking...he found me...we became friends...lovers and now planning a LTR together! :heart: It can/does happen on JSH! I'm here to tell ya. :wink:

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Mon 05/26/08 08:16 AM
I don't really look at this place as a dating site, but have met some great folks, male and female, just to hang with while on the computer. There are some really interesting and funny people here that I never would have had the chance to chat with if not for meeting them here.

Sure, if someone made me swoon and tickled my heart, maybe, but if it happens it will just magically fall into place, I'm certainly not expecting it.

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Mon 05/26/08 08:17 AM
Just looking for friends saves us from all the freaks.



bbbut catch, can I be your freaky friend?brokenheart

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Mon 05/26/08 08:18 AM
i'm starting to see there are many different situations.
friends first is always good
already have someone, just looking for friends
just to see what happens
so on and so on

thanks all good answers

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Mon 05/26/08 08:19 AM
i'm a just friends, and i like that because it takes the pressure off of finding someone and opens up the possibility of meeting people from all over, even women, to enjoy great friendship! i never rule anything out though flowerforyou drinker

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Mon 05/26/08 08:19 AM
smooched :heart: smooched
(((((((((((((Sherman))))))))))))C'mere my freaky friend!!!

You know I've loved you long time!!! :heart: devil :heart:

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Mon 05/26/08 08:19 AM
friends first would be best for me

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Mon 05/26/08 08:20 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 05/26/08 08:21 AM
Of course I would date him. But not if he has marriage in mind.

Can't we just be friends and lovers?

Or maybe just friends?

Or maybe just lovers?




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Mon 05/26/08 08:22 AM
It would depend on soooo many things that it's not likely they could ever all come together...unfortunately. I'm a realist...and it just doesn't seem like a "real" possibility from where I'm sittin'.

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Mon 05/26/08 08:27 AM
thanks for the insight. the words printed on the screen "just looking for friends" set up a roadblock in my mind that is now open thanks to you all:smile:

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Mon 05/26/08 09:46 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Mon 05/26/08 09:47 AM
I think a lot of women use "looking for friends" because that is the truth. They are looking for friends of both sexes perhaps. Someone to talk to.

But also, it looks less like they are advertising to just get laid. LOL. It cuts down on late night instant messages from men who want Internet sex. laugh laugh

If I decide I want sex, I would prefer the up close and in person kind.

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Mon 05/26/08 12:31 PM

mostly to the ones who say they are only looking for friends on JSH, if you became good friends with a guy on here, would you not consider ever dating him. just curious about this.


I can't say never - but its definitely not my intent.

Friends are Friends ...and I don't date friends.

bigsmile

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Mon 05/26/08 12:33 PM


mostly to the ones who say they are only looking for friends on JSH, if you became good friends with a guy on here, would you not consider ever dating him. just curious about this.


I can't say never - but its definitely not my intent.

Friends are Friends ...and I don't date friends.

bigsmile


Then who do you date? Enemies? Stud muffins? LOL laugh laugh laugh

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