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that you were adopted would you be mad at you parents or thank them for doing something someone else couldn't?
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I am adopted and i thank my folks everyday!!!
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Edited by
Queene123
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Sat 05/24/08 06:10 PM
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why would they tell you so late... you figure you would know when you were younger
i knew a few that had open adoptions my daughter had a few of her friends that adopted there kids out and some were as well open adoptions .. my daughter had her son when she was 14 and some her age arent mature to take care of themselves and my daughter was.. she 25 now with 3kids.. |
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that you were adopted would you be mad at you parents or thank them for doing something someone else couldn't? probably be hurt that they kept it secret for so long. |
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Edited by
mcattygarnett
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Sat 05/24/08 06:06 PM
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good question, but seeing as how my grandparents raised me, I would be thankful for them, but mad at my mom
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Been there done that, couldnt have ended up with a better mom if I got to pick her out myself.
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i would definitely thank them...
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I was adopted, and five when they told me. Didn't really make a diffrence they were still my parents.
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Thank them and then ask why they kept using their medical histories on my medical charts.
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Id thank them
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Thank them and then ask why they kept using their medical histories on my medical charts. 
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I had a good childhood I definitly thank them.
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Yea the medical is hard to get around. My bio mom sent me a letter when I was like 15 telling me all of her issues...good thing, because things make more sense now.
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i wouldnt be mad... i think shocked more is the feeling... then courious
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Thank them..cause if I never have kids..thats what i'm gonna do.
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i wouldn't even question it...................we have a really tight family...................proud of it too.........
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 who cares.......if they are good parents and they raised you well then why should it matter real parents or not? if you love them,and they love you,then your certainly better off then being with parents who did not want you.
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Thank them..cause if I never have kids..thats what i'm gonna do. i want to addapt.........but i'm sure they will know i'm not there dad......i have always wanted to adapt from another country |
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Thank them..cause if I never have kids..thats what i'm gonna do. i want to addapt.........but i'm sure they will know i'm not there dad......i have always wanted to adapt from another country Yep me to...the less privaliged countries
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It depends when you tell them. My cousin was adopted and found out when she was 25. It messed her up and she had a period of drug use and scummy men. This girl before had it all, smart beautiful, funny.... It was a terrible shame. She is finally coming back to her old self, but oh the things she and her parents went through. I felt sorry for all of them.
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