OK so you guys just read my other post and everyone thinks somethings up so heres the question.... What am I supposed to do now! Like when he calls with another excuse for y he didnt call!?

Oh and thanks for your advice people!

tell him you now have a headache, but, that you did not have one the last few days.

Say well that is ok...I was busy talking to so and so(enter guys name here) anyway....so I actually forgot you didnt call.

Be chilly, don't take the call, don't call him.

forget about it, and move on, life's too short for BS

turn it around on him tell him your busy.

good luck msskarly

lol willie,,,,thats sounds like a good one,,try that one,,see how he likes it

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pick it up like usual, say hey cant talk im to busy..ill try calling you later, and dont call back...so when he calls again repeat it...and avoid any texts

Or have some guy leave a message on your phone saying "your name here" is busy right now...we will call you back later..LOL

I'd say the best revenge is to act indifferent if he calls ... if you're kinda snarky with him then it gives him confirmation of why he's 'doing the right thing' in his mind by weaseling out of the situation ... and if you act all sucky then you look like you're lost without him.

Be friendly, upbeat - but keep the conversation short, explaining that you're just on your way out to go do X (insert something believable but cool & exciting) with a bunch of friends, thank him for calling and hang up ... let him wonder what he just let slip thru his fingers! He'll figure out soon enough that he blew it ... BIG TIME!

Just be honest and tell him that you dont want to play games and move on, life is too short for all of the bs that is out there.

That is my answer too.

tell him listen up hear this........a dial tone

I prefer to hit the phone on the table after saying that. Of course it was more effective with the old style rotary phones. They wouldn't break when you did it.

Do you have caller ID? Probably do - so when he calls, turn off the ringer and walk away.

i've used this it works!!!!

I totally agree. If he is playing you (which I think he is), don't stoop to his level. Take a deep breath and tell him what you think is going on. He'll either hang up, feed you another load of bull, or if he's on the up and up (which I don't think he is) he'll be willing to discuss everything that is going on and try to work things out. But like I said, don't stoop to his level and play the same games he is playing.

Sit quietly by yourself, and without focusing on any man, make a list of the qualities you expect out of that man, knowing full well that you require similar qualities out of yourself. (You didn't think it would be a oneway thing did you? ) Then quietly assess the current relationship for its strengths and weaknesses. Then look at your own part in it and grade yourself too. If you're honest about both sides, you'll have your own answer.

Call his bluff.....Tell the dude you want to visit his grandma in the hospital with him