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Topic: Kindness
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/21/08 02:53 PM
I was talking with a friend on here about some email I got yesterday. Someone decided to be "kind" to me and let me know "WHO" I was. My friends response was "The kindness of the heart of a man...kind of sours it for the rest of us that are actually useful when we're kind." Why do some think it is their place to be "kind" and tell who you are??? Especially someone who doesn't know me from Eve?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/21/08 02:57 PM
I'm confused Lily. Spose that was meant to be useful or kind?

Awoodz94 Joined Tue 05/20/08 Posts: 19	Wed 05/21/08 02:58 PM
no body has that right. no one can possibly know me better than i know me, not even my best friend. so for someone to think they can tell you who you are is wrong.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Wed 05/21/08 02:58 PM
I'm confused Lily. Spose that was meant to be useful or kind? i second that

Robm248 Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 821	Wed 05/21/08 02:59 PM
Some people just think that they know everything and that you should live life how they want life lived. They are not worth your time to worry about!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/21/08 03:01 PM
I'm confused Lily. Spose that was meant to be useful or kind? i second that I don't think I find it even kinda useful.

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Wed 05/21/08 03:01 PM
You didn't even know them from the forums? Must have been a lurker. I get a lot of emails like that. Some end up as friends and some end up like stalkers.

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 05/21/08 03:04 PM
I was talking with a friend on here about some email I got yesterday. Someone decided to be "kind" to me and let me know "WHO" I was. My friends response was "The kindness of the heart of a man...kind of sours it for the rest of us that are actually useful when we're kind." Why do some think it is their place to be "kind" and tell who you are??? Especially someone who doesn't know me from Eve? wonderful world of internet

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/21/08 03:05 PM
What's with that? I've had guys make comments to me in emails about something I posted. I'd never seen them on in threads before. Why don't they just reply in the forums?

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Wed 05/21/08 03:06 PM
After reading your post again that is just kind of strange. The ones I get are not quite like that.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/21/08 03:06 PM
I don't think I find it even kinda useful. Oh and told me that I don't have any friends, funny I'm going camping with about 10 of them this weekend...

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Wed 05/21/08 03:12 PM
I don't think I find it even kinda useful. Oh and told me that I don't have any friends, funny I'm going camping with about 10 of them this weekend... its just probably someone that doesn't have a life and is insecure with him/herself and needs to attack others to make themselves feel better.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/21/08 03:12 PM
Let me at em! I had a guy my second day email me a message that said he thought someone had done a real # on me. Umm....think I'd posted like 12 things at the time about kittens and coffee. Where do they come from? I told him I don't talk to strangers and never heard from him again. Guess he didn't have a sense of humor either.

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Wed 05/21/08 03:15 PM
What's with that? I've had guys make comments to me in emails about something I posted. I'd never seen them on in threads before. Why don't they just reply in the forums? Uh oh. I did that to a guy once.

Gams Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 605	Wed 05/21/08 03:16 PM
I don't think I find it even kinda useful. Oh and told me that I don't have any friends, funny I'm going camping with about 10 of them this weekend... its just probably someone that doesn't have a life and is insecure with him/herself and needs to attack others to make themselves feel better.

eskimo_nell Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 3035	Wed 05/21/08 03:17 PM
im confused

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 05/21/08 03:19 PM
Here's the killer too, HE emailed me first and in his final email said for me to move along.... WTFH??? He was concerned that I needed someone to talk to because I am so snappy, when I told him I was just fine, then told me the reason I don't have friends is because I'm so b*tchy. To which I responded, thank you for your concern, I do just fine, and prefer to associate with intelligent human beings, then told ME to move along before someone dropped a house on me.... I don't get people. He started the conversation and then when I dismissed his "kindness" told me to go away... How kind is that? I think people should invest in dictionaries.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/21/08 03:19 PM
What's with that? I've had guys make comments to me in emails about something I posted. I'd never seen them on in threads before. Why don't they just reply in the forums? Uh oh. I did that to a guy once. But you post in the forums...I've seen you around. This is just from left field.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 05/21/08 03:22 PM
Here's the killer too, HE emailed me first and in his final email said for me to move along.... WTFH??? He was concerned that I needed someone to talk to because I am so snappy, when I told him I was just fine, then told me the reason I don't have friends is because I'm so b*tchy. To which I responded, thank you for your concern, I do just fine, and prefer to associate with intelligent human beings, then told ME to move along before someone dropped a house on me.... I don't get people. He started the conversation and then when I dismissed his "kindness" told me to go away... How kind is that? I think people should invest in dictionaries. Watch out for houses...they drop on people all the time.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 05/21/08 03:24 PM
I'll get you my pretty! cackle cackle