My picture says it all. Probably nice. Probably a f--- up, too! Given that, it would not do me much good to lie at this forum. C'est la vie!

The key is..to not be me apparently.

If you read my profile, you can clearly see I have flaws. I wrote about them in a subtle way, so as not to trash myself. But they are there.

I have flaws, as does everyone else. I prefer that people are self aware and work on their weaknesses.... but then again I beileve most people don't want to be self-aware, much less work on their issues. At least, the people that want to date me, anyhow.

I completely agree.

Plus most people who are looking for a relationship with someone won't want them to know their flaws.

Ok, I have lots of flaws. Now how about all you pretty ladies coem over here and say hi to me. I swear I will change.

LMAO

But what if you are perfect in your imperfections?

Are you looking for someone like that?

And sometimes people don't recognize their character flaws, or see flaws that aren't there. And what categorizes a flaw can mean something different to different people, so it's really up for the people they interact with to decide their "flaws" and determine what kind of relationship they want with this person based on what they know about them through talking to them, not just through a profile.

So, you're saying I should change "friends" to...Closed for chicken season?

LMAO .. ya like in real estate a 'dollhouse' is a prison cell yada yada

So a quiet person is anti-social .. yada yada

My entire profile is a character flaw.

urm people are trying to date..i mean hi im debs im a lying cheating b*tch please date me..duh..it doesnt quite work...luckily im not these things and yes there are some people out there who need pushing of a cliff..but they arnt going to say it now are they

I never let being a mentally ill alcoholic interfere with having fun and as a matter of fact, would bet I have alot more fun than most. After all, if I really want to make someone laugh, all I need to do is say what's on my mind. You don't have to know I'm serious. As for the alcholic part, the last time I drank was on Fathers day, 2003. The stigma is in being a drunk, not a sober alcoholic. As to the above, both of the above character defects have been turned into assets, just as was promised me years ago.