Community > General Discussion

Topic: How many of you.....
rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Mon 05/19/08 02:15 PM
depends on which ex's we are talking about....come to think of it..I dont reallyt talk to any....the soon to be ex husband emails me or has his new gf email me....i just got to the point I ignore him and his craziness.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 05/19/08 02:15 PM
I don't talk to cheaters u have to have a forgiveing heart, or how do you expect god to forgive you when you mess up hard to forgive someone when the only place the pants stayed on was home. you need to forgive but not nessasarly forget, the not forgeting part is what makes us human no can do, she left with my kid's and she was the unfaithful one, sorry won't happen. I know it can be hard, but the only way to have true peace over something like this is to forgive them. Holding a grudge for any reason does nobody any good. do you have kid's?

mass Joined Tue 04/22/08 Posts: 1091	Mon 05/19/08 02:17 PM
Still talk to and are somewhat good terms with an ex or exes? I talk to my ex from time to time, she's actually engaged now :) I have to talk to him sometimes. More often than not I am making inquiries as to why my kid is being returned to me w/ a mullet and clothing for 18mos (he is 2 and a half). But, we could end up getting along, down the road. I'm sure we will.

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Mon 05/19/08 02:17 PM
He and I still talk I miss him like crazy I want him back!! Im actually crying right now I miss him so bad Well....if he's not taken, what's stopping you from getting back with him?

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Mon 05/19/08 02:17 PM
Humm myself if and ex crosses my path I will talk to them and do. But.........we are not on buddy buddy terms but we are always civil to each other. It was just not meant to be. We had our good times we had our bad times. We were not meant for each other does not mean I must hold a grudge for the rest of my life. I wish each and everyone of them the best in life we all deserve that somewhere down the line. wise words here

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Mon 05/19/08 02:17 PM
I rarely talk to my first ex. My second ex and I are kind of friends. I have a kid from each marriage.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 05/19/08 02:18 PM
I know it can be hard, but the only way to have true peace over something like this is to forgive them. Holding a grudge for any reason does nobody any good. Hey - I will never forgive my one ex. What she did was despicable. I never want to see her or talk to her again. And I don't wish her luck or happiness yet - I feel she needs to see what she does to people. I have found out that I wasn't the only one she was a 2 faced b!tch wh0re with. That being said, I am VERY happy right now. Happier than I have been in a very long time.

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Mon 05/19/08 02:19 PM
I don't talk to cheaters u have to have a forgiveing heart, or how do you expect god to forgive you when you mess up hard to forgive someone when the only place the pants stayed on was home. you need to forgive but not nessasarly forget, the not forgeting part is what makes us human no can do, she left with my kid's and she was the unfaithful one, sorry won't happen. I know it can be hard, but the only way to have true peace over something like this is to forgive them. Holding a grudge for any reason does nobody any good. do you have kid's? No I do not. I still stand by comment though, heck even more so because there are kids involved. For their sake at least, forgiveness is a good thing.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Mon 05/19/08 02:19 PM
I don't talk to cheaters u have to have a forgiveing heart, or how do you expect god to forgive you when you mess up hard to forgive someone when the only place the pants stayed on was home. you need to forgive but not nessasarly forget, the not forgeting part is what makes us human no can do, she left with my kid's and she was the unfaithful one, sorry won't happen. I know it can be hard, but the only way to have true peace over something like this is to forgive them. Holding a grudge for any reason does nobody any good. do you have kid's? yes i do a 19 year old daughter and my ex wich now is my good friend tried to not let me see her and took me to court and tried to get full physical custody

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Mon 05/19/08 02:21 PM
He and I still talk I miss him like crazy I want him back!! Im actually crying right now I miss him so bad im sory heather, i realy feel for you

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Mon 05/19/08 02:23 PM
I don't talk to cheaters u have to have a forgiveing heart, or how do you expect god to forgive you when you mess up hard to forgive someone when the only place the pants stayed on was home. you need to forgive but not nessasarly forget, the not forgeting part is what makes us human no can do, she left with my kid's and she was the unfaithful one, sorry won't happen. I know it can be hard, but the only way to have true peace over something like this is to forgive them. Holding a grudge for any reason does nobody any good. and to add who ever holds a grudge basicly they suffer cause there miserable holding onto the past and they other one has moved on with there life

msdestinbooty Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1915	Mon 05/19/08 02:26 PM
He and I still talk I miss him like crazy I want him back!! Im actually crying right now I miss him so bad Well....if he's not taken, what's stopping you from getting back with him? I want to call him but Im scared too. Im afraid I will start bawling on the phone when I call him.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Mon 05/19/08 02:26 PM
I rarely talk to my first ex. My second ex and I are kind of friends. I have a kid from each marriage. hello suzette

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Mon 05/19/08 02:27 PM
I don't talk to cheaters u have to have a forgiveing heart, or how do you expect god to forgive you when you mess up hard to forgive someone when the only place the pants stayed on was home. you need to forgive but not nessasarly forget, the not forgeting part is what makes us human no can do, she left with my kid's and she was the unfaithful one, sorry won't happen. I know it can be hard, but the only way to have true peace over something like this is to forgive them. Holding a grudge for any reason does nobody any good. and to add who ever holds a grudge basicly they suffer cause there miserable holding onto the past and they other one has moved on with there life This is true Ike, I remember having that experience with my ex for a while at first. I would go out of my way to ignore her at school and stuff. It was so silly looking back on it.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 05/19/08 02:27 PM
and to add who ever holds a grudge basicly they suffer cause there miserable holding onto the past and they other one has moved on with there life I disagree with that. I never want to talk or see one of my ex's again and I am happier than I have ever been.

Kleisto Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 5704	Mon 05/19/08 02:28 PM
He and I still talk I miss him like crazy I want him back!! Im actually crying right now I miss him so bad Well....if he's not taken, what's stopping you from getting back with him? I want to call him but Im scared too. Im afraid I will start bawling on the phone when I call him. Don't worry about the fear, just take the step. What's worse, calling him and crying on the phone, or never calling him and not knowing what might have been?

msdestinbooty Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 1915	Mon 05/19/08 02:28 PM
He and I still talk I miss him like crazy I want him back!! Im actually crying right now I miss him so bad im sory heather, i realy feel for you thanks I want to call him but scared too. I dont want to call him then sound like a baby on the phone if I start crying.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 05/19/08 02:29 PM
This is true Ike, I remember having that experience with my ex for a while at first. I would go out of my way to ignore her at school and stuff. It was so silly looking back on it. You're 20 years old....wait until you have someone not only d!ck you over but mess with your little girls emotions.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Mon 05/19/08 02:29 PM
He and I still talk I miss him like crazy I want him back!! Im actually crying right now I miss him so bad Well....if he's not taken, what's stopping you from getting back with him? I want to call him but Im scared too. Im afraid I will start bawling on the phone when I call him. heather call him, he just might have the same feelings you do about you, you always be asking your self what if

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Mon 05/19/08 02:32 PM
He and I still talk I miss him like crazy I want him back!! Im actually crying right now I miss him so bad im sory heather, i realy feel for you thanks I want to call him but scared too. I dont want to call him then sound like a baby on the phone if I start crying. heather he might just feel the same way about you, call him, you will be glad you did