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I would have a serious talk with him about your relationship, where it's at and where it's going. Get everything aired out one way or the other and then go from there.
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if your not happy now,,or there are things that he does that you don't like,,,,,,,,,,,hun,,,,you might as well go looking elese where,,,sorry
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Okay so my boyfriend seems to be flirting with these other girls.. and i've confronted him about it and he keeps giving me the same answer : it's against what i believe in.. What should i do?  break it off and come to papa! |
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Jealousy is a wasted emotion
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Welcome to the Forum..first post YAY! Not sure if I am quite understanding the issue though, could u please elaborate sweety? Okay... Well we met each other on this site Myyearbook and well i found out that he onnly lives a couple of hours away.. so we started talking then he asked me out and so we've been dating each other for a couple of weeks.. well anyway i logged onto his account one day and i found all these messages from these girls who he's been flirting with.. and so i confronted him since im tired of being cheated on and he said that he didn't believe in cheating on girls and that the girls are just friends.. Big no no. You violated his privacy in logging onto HIS account. For shame. A great book you might want to read is The Mark of Cain: An Anatomy of Jealousy. It really helps to learn that jealousy is an immature thing! he told me i could log into his account whenever i wanted too.  I don't care if he told you it was ok to log into his account. Deep down, he never thought you would actually do it, and now that you have, you can be damn sure he will never openly say you can log into any of his accounts ever again. Now, did you offer the same thing in return? Did you give him the go ahead to log into your account? Just curious. Anywho, jealousy sucks, but man is it an easy emotion to get caught up in. Right now, I have a GF who has guy friends. She deals with me having girl friends. But the bottom line is trust. She knows that she is the only girl I want to be with and vice versa. But I would never openly say for her to log into my account, nor would I expect her to offer me access to hers. It's all about privacy, and you have to respect that. |
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Did you give him the go ahead to log into your account? Just curious. I'd like to know the answer to this question myself!! |
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Okay so my boyfriend seems to be flirting with these other girls.. and i've confronted him about it and he keeps giving me the same answer : it's against what i believe in.. What should i do?  
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tell him your tired of his crap here
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 Well, I see one problem already, what the heck were you doing signing into his account? You have issues and are insecure and that will create problems in all of your relationships until you get that under control. Respect his privacy, you are only dating him after all. If he flirts and he says that they are just friends, you have two choices, and no, one is not to change him. One accept his word as truth and QUIT playing sherlock holmes or move on. Good luck
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ok, calm down and chill out. You guys just started dating. It's all good right now. For starters it's kinda unrealistic to expect your significant other not to flirt. Flirting is innocent and makes people feel good. Of course, if this flirting included the exchange of phone numbers and/or "hey i want your body, lets meet", then i could understand a problem. But even still, you've only been dating a short time. Don't try to take things too seriously. Attachment should be earned over time, not jumped into or expected. It was kinda a no-no to log into his account and start accusing him of things. He obviously doesn't want to hide anything if he gave up his password and info to you. All i can say, is it's ok to flirt (same goes to you) as long as it's fairly innocent. And since the relationship is new just sit back and enjoy the ride. It's not like you've invested your heart and soul into this guy already......or have you?
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ok, calm down and chill out. You guys just started dating. It's all good right now. For starters it's kinda unrealistic to expect your significant other not to flirt. Flirting is innocent and makes people feel good. Of course, if this flirting included the exchange of phone numbers and/or "hey i want your body, lets meet", then i could understand a problem. But even still, you've only been dating a short time. Don't try to take things too seriously. Attachment should be earned over time, not jumped into or expected. It was kinda a no-no to log into his account and start accusing him of things. He obviously doesn't want to hide anything if he gave up his password and info to you. All i can say, is it's ok to flirt (same goes to you) as long as it's fairly innocent. And since the relationship is new just sit back and enjoy the ride. It's not like you've invested your heart and soul into this guy already......or have you? Thanks. Saved me the trouble of typing all that.
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ok, calm down and chill out. You guys just started dating. It's all good right now. For starters it's kinda unrealistic to expect your significant other not to flirt. Flirting is innocent and makes people feel good. Of course, if this flirting included the exchange of phone numbers and/or "hey i want your body, lets meet", then i could understand a problem. But even still, you've only been dating a short time. Don't try to take things too seriously. Attachment should be earned over time, not jumped into or expected. It was kinda a no-no to log into his account and start accusing him of things. He obviously doesn't want to hide anything if he gave up his password and info to you. All i can say, is it's ok to flirt (same goes to you) as long as it's fairly innocent. And since the relationship is new just sit back and enjoy the ride. It's not like you've invested your heart and soul into this guy already......or have you? Thanks. Saved me the trouble of typing all that.
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