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Topic: i hate when
wendynhouston's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:10 PM


well if your not in love and you are sure of it run run fast and long ..
I spent 18 years with a woman I did not love and belive me you dont get that time back flowerforyou



the problem is that he insist to much , everytime i break with him , the thing is that he love me soo much , i think i cant make decisions by myself sometimes , and i need someone to take care of me , its sounds like if i were a baby , but its hard to me sometimes live by myself. i mean i didnt have like a father , well yes i had a father but he never play the rol of a father , and with this guy he is like well i see him kind of like a dad , he protect me , and get mad when i dont no how to do things , and thats the reason i am with him , i thing am disoriented all by myself ,


I sorta know what you are going through. Just a few days ago I broke it off with a guy I had been with off and on with for the past 3-4 years. Out of the guys I dated so far, he was the one that just got me. He knew me better than I knew myself. We have split up like 5-6 times, always lasting a few months then split for 4-5 months and start talking again and those feelings would come back and we'd give it another try. However, my problem is that even though he was older (almost 33), he goofed off all the time and a lot of little things he did would irritate me. However, I thought because he knew me so well and loved me, things could work out. It's not always the case. If you can't say you are truly in love with this guy, it's best to break it off for good. Even though I enjoyed the time that we spent together, I can't get those years back and I'm not any closer to finding the one I'm met to be with.

Sounds like you need to take time to figure out about yourself. Surround yourself in things you like to do and meet people that have similar interests. Don't go rushing into a relationship with a guy just because you feel that he can protect you or is filling some void.

mexicanbeauty's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:10 PM

If this man is not making you happy you need to find the one that will. He may think he loves you but if he truly did he would recognize your feelings. Do not stay with someone just because they think they love you, It has to be mutual.
You are a perfect example that just because someone is beautiful does not mean they will be happy in their life.



soo truee indifferent indifferent

AceDarling's photo
Thu 05/15/08 07:36 PM
I know what you meen. Maybe that feelin might not never go away, but you should be able to fulfill most of it.flowerforyou

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