at what point does an action become unforgiveable? action or comment...

at the point when you can't stand looking at the persons face any more

That is vague. What is the action? Without any additional information, I would say that an action becomes unforgiveable when the "actor" does not want or seek forgiveness.

That is hard. I really don't like to hold grudges. If someone is going to stop what they were doing to hurt me in the first place, I would probably want to make peace.

Some things though..I have a sister who had four different children ..by four different fathers..she kept all of them for a while and then gave them up..her first three children at least went to relatives, people that they knew; but her fourth son she gave up for adoption when he was 4 years old. I can't even imagine what he went through.

She is the one person in my life I cannot forgive.

when they can't say sorry when they started the fight but blame you, and then play the victim about it.

silly little blue box...questions are for humans

when they become a complete and total ass!!! ass!!!!!!ass!!!!!!!!!ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When you know there was intent to harm.

how do you know that i don't look like a blue box....

never

best davidben post ever.

Everyone must forgive. That does not mean you have to be back friends again or like them, or even protect them. But you must have forgiveness in your heart. It is a requirment, not by me. By someone above all of us.

nothing is commmanded by anything if it be love.....it is men that have insisted forgivness be a law of god, as nothing can achieve the "above us" defintion of forgivness, which is to NOT REMEMBER........it was only ever said that to speak the bitterness would BRING forgivess, or love back in due perfect TIME....

everything is forgivable...


but certain actions are sometimes to hard for a person to FORGET

many, many, many, many, many actions are hard to forget, and no one has at any time ever been told to forgive except but by a man......one cannot forget the pain of a child being born until ALL the joy of the childs life being lived is experienced.......rather the good becoming great overtake the bad painful memory of pain......TIME

NEVER!

I don't know about that. Looking at that little boy in your pic and i'm sure you love him very much so. As far as action goes. If something were to happen to him, i don't think you would forgive. There are somthings in this world that are not forgivable. Just my opinion.

Uhhhhhhhhh I dont think so!!! If someone were to intentionally hurt you or your child.......physically? mentally? sexually???

When the intention is to harm... the action is to harm...that is unforgivable.