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Topic: Do you research users
hikerchick's photo
Tue 05/13/08 09:23 PM
My question is why do they have that function if no one will admit to using it??

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 05/13/08 09:24 PM

My question is why do they have that function if no one will admit to using it??


The same reason you can look when deactivated and that they now have stealth mode.. So that we have "no" privacy....

jonny63's photo
Tue 05/13/08 09:26 PM

(((Indn))) then use that both ways... say show me!!!!


I went through that with a guy jeezzzzzzzzzzz forever ago
somebody on my 1st page of friends
this was before we became friends

He sent me a note & said I think your a good person & wish you luck even thou you don't like me... noway

I asked why he would think that?
& it was something he had read that I had posted after him & took it as directed to him...

I spent awhile copying to show him it wasn't him... ugh!!!


Jonny, you don't want anybody seeing what you say??

I don't think its anybody's business what I may have said last week. If someone wants to know bad enough then they could ask me to enable it. Would be a matter of trust both ways.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 05/13/08 09:29 PM

(((Indn))) then use that both ways... say show me!!!!


I went through that with a guy jeezzzzzzzzzzz forever ago
somebody on my 1st page of friends
this was before we became friends

He sent me a note & said I think your a good person & wish you luck even thou you don't like me... noway

I asked why he would think that?
& it was something he had read that I had posted after him & took it as directed to him...

I spent awhile copying to show him it wasn't him... ugh!!!


Jonny, you don't want anybody seeing what you say??




(((catch))) I would have but they also accused me of other things that weren't me (mistaken identity by hiring a PI), I was not given the option of defending myself I was just slammed a few times and that was it...

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 05/13/08 10:35 PM

that you are interested in - by that I mean do you go through their prior posts? (I better go back and edit edit edit)


It seems more like the other way around. I notice the poster and then view their profile, except when there are new mutual matches. I'm pretty certain it's the posts and not the searches that get the best view. Now, on the topic of mutual matches, tonight I was 0 for 6. Not one of them was even close for me. Too sleazy, two tons, and too far, and some combinations thereof. I don't think my standards went up, but wow. Usually there's at least something I can consider a maybe.

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